Being a Good Friend
Name 2 things a good friend does
A good friend listens, is kind, keeps promises, and included you
In a healthy relationship do both people respect each other?
Yes! Respect goes both ways in a healthy relationship
Name one way a friendship might change if it becomes romantic.
You might spend more time together, hold hands, or go on dates.
What is a boundary?
A boundary is a limit you set for what you are okay and not okay with.
Should you share your home address with someone you just met online?
No. Keep your address and other private info to yourself with new online contacts and if you need help ask your trusted adult.
What does consent mean?
Consent means freely agreeing to something--and you can always change your mind, anytime.
True or False- A good friend always agrees with everything you say
False, Real friends can disagree sometimes and still care about you.
Name one sign of an unhealthy relationship.
Someone controls you, puts you down, or doesn't respect it when you say no.
True or False--You must date a friend if they ask you out?
False--It is always your choice, and it's okay to say no.
What should you do if someone makes you feel uncomfortable?
Say no, walk away if you can, and tell a trusted person.
What is a 'red flag' when talking to someone online?
Asking for money, pressuring you, asking for private photos, or rusting to meet alone.
True or False--If someone stays quiet, that means they said yes.
False--Silence is not a yes. Consent has to be clear and freely given. An enthusiastic yes.
Name one way to show someone you care about their feelings?
Ask how they are doing, listen without interrupting, or check in after something happens.
What does 'respect' mean in a relationship?
Listening to what the other person wants and not pressuring them to do things they don't want to do.
What should you do if you're not sure how you feel about a friend?
Take your time, It's okay to say, 'I need to think about it.'
Name one trusted adult you could talk to if something felt wrong?
Any trusted person works--staff, a family member, a counselor, or a support person. Encourage them to name someone.
Before meeting an online friend in person, what's a safe step to take?
Tell a trusted person, meet in a public place, and bring someone with you.
If someone touches you in a way that doesn't feel right, what should you do?
Say 'stop' or 'NO' firmly, get away if you can, and tell a trusted adult right away.
What should you do if a friend hurts your feelings?
Tell them calmly how you feel, talk it out, and it's okay to ask for space if you need it.
If someone tells you who you can and can't be friends with, is that healthy?
No--That's controlling behavior and it's not okay.
Name one respectful way to tell a friend you like them romantically?
Talk to them privately, be honest and calm, and respect whatever answer they give you.
True or False--It's OK to say no, even to someone you like.
True--You can always say no, no matter who is asking.
True or False--Everyone online is who they say they are?
False, People can lie about who they are online so it's mart to stay cautious, careful.
True or False--It could be your fault if someone touches you without permission.
False--It is never your fault, no matter what. The person who did it is responsible.
What is one way to fix a disagreement with a friend?
Talk calmly, listen to their side, say sorry if you were wrong, and try to find a solution together.
Name one healthy way to handle feeling jealous.
Talk honestly, about your feelings instead of trying to control the other person.
How can you know if someone likes you back?
They show it through kindness and interest--but the only way to know for sure is to ask them directly.
It it okay to change your mind about a boundary you have already set? Ex. Kissing or touching
Yes, You can change a boundary anytime and others need to respect it right away.
Should you send private photos to someone you met online?
No--never send private photos, even if someone asks or pressures you.
True or False--This can only happen with a stranger, never with someone you know.
False--It can happen with a stranger or with someone you know and trust--either way, it's never okay and it's never your fault.