You are making lunch and realize you don't know how to use the stove. What should you do?
Stop and ask someone who knows how to use it safely; don't guess.
You don't understand the instructions your doctor gave you.
What should you do?
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I'm not sure I understand. Can you explain that again?”
Your usual bus doesn't arrive.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“My bus didn't come. Can you help me figure out when the next one comes?”
Someone you don't know asks you to go somewhere with them.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“No, thank you. I'm going to stay here.”
You receive a bill you don't understand.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I don't understand this bill. Can you help me figure it out?”
You spill water on the kitchen floor.
What should you do?
Clean it up or ask for help so nobody slips.
You have an appointment tomorrow but don't remember what time it is.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I have an appointment tomorrow, but I don't remember what time it is. Can you help me find out?”
You get on the bus and realize you're not sure where you are going.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I'm not sure where I am. Can you help me figure out where I need to go?”
Someone you don't know asks for your address and phone number.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I don't give out my personal information.”
You're shopping and realize you don't have enough money for everything.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I don't have enough money for everything. Can you help me decide what I should put back?”
You are trying to do laundry, but you don't know which setting to use.
What could you do?
Ask someone, look at instructions, check a guide, or have someone show you.
You aren't feeling well and aren't sure what to do.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I'm not feeling well. Can you help me figure out what I should do?”
You are at a store and can't find something you need.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“Excuse me, can you help me find the cereal?”
You're walking somewhere and notice someone you don't know following you.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I don't feel safe. Someone is following me. Can you help me?”
You look at your receipt and think you were charged too much.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I think I was charged the wrong amount. Could you please check my receipt?”
You notice that the sink is leaking and water is getting onto the floor.
What should you do?
Clean up what you can, ask for help from someone trusted
Is this something you should fix yourself?
You receive a new medication but don't understand when you're supposed to take it.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I'm not sure when I'm supposed to take this medicine. Can you explain it to me?”
You're supposed to meet someone but can't find the meeting place.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I'm trying to find this location. Can you help me?”
Someone says you won a prize but asks for your bank information first.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I'm not comfortable giving you that information. I'm going to check with someone I trust.”
A friend asks to borrow money, but you don't want to lend it to them.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I'm sorry, but I can't lend you money.”
or
“I don't want to lend out my money.”
You smell something burning in the kitchen, but you don't see anything obviously wrong.
What should you do?
Move away from the danger and get help rather than investigating or trying to repair an appliance.
You are feeling very sick and aren't sure whether you need emergency help.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I'm feeling very sick and I'm not sure what I should do. Can you help me?”
Your phone dies while you're out and you need to get home.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“My phone died and I need help getting home. Can you help me contact someone?”
You are somewhere in the community and suddenly feel unsafe.
Good responses:
Challenge: Name 3 safe choices.
You get a message saying you won $5,000, but you have to send $100 first.
Good responses:
What could you say?
“I'm going to check with someone I trust before I do anything.”