Types of Boundaries
This type of boundary includes personal space and physical touch
What is physical boundary.
“If you hadn’t made me so mad, I wouldn’t have pushed you.”
Blaming
Accepting responsibility for self, acknowledging past use of violence, admitting being wrong
Honesty & Accountability
Dating violence is rare among high school students, college students and other educated people.
What is false
Dating and domestic violence is common among all people – rich, poor, black, white, Asian, Latino, etc.
Every month end Ted has to give his wife his entire salary. She does not give him any money to buy his necessities. This type of abuse is known as ______________.
What is economic abuse
This type of boundary includes respecting feelings
What is an emotional boundary
When you return home intoxicated, and your partner gets upset, your response is "I'm NOT DRUNK!"
Denial
Talking and acting so that your partner feels safe and comfortable expressing themselves
Non-threatening Behavior
When someone leaves an abusive relationship, the abuse usually ends.
What is False
Unfortunately, a time when a victim is most at risk is when leaving the relationship. This is called separation violence, and safety planning needs to be put in place for this whenever possible.
The two broad types of attachment styles are _______________ & _______________.
What are secure and insecure
This type of boundary includes setting limits on what possessions you share and with whom
What is material boundary
“I only called my ex because I needed someone to talk to about our relationship.”
Justification
Listening to her non-judgmentally, being emotionally affirming and understanding
Respect
Drug and/or alcohol abuse is often a factor in dating violence incidents
What is True
Although drug and alcohol abuse is often a factor in dating violence, it is not a cause or an “excuse.”
Both victims and perpetrators of violence are much more likely to use drugs and alcohol than people who are not in abusive relationships.
What are the three types of communication styles?
What are assertive, passive, and aggressive.
This type of boundary refers to respecting thoughts and ideas
What is an intellectual boundary
"I didn't hit her that hard"
Minimizing
Supporting their goals in life, respecting their right to their own feelings
Trust & Support
The best way to get a friend to leave an abusive relationship is to "cut ties" with them.
What is False
This may actually have the opposite effect. Someone who is being abused in a relationship needs outside help and support and is very unlikely to leave that relationship without the support and help of families and friends.
If your partner's love language is ______________, you should avoid making the requests of others a higher priority.
Acts of Service
This type of boundary includes how your time is used
What is a time boundary
When your partner is trying to address a concern and you bring up an unrelated issue, this is called:
Sidetracking
Mutually agreeing on a fair distribution of work, making family decisions together
Shared Responsibilities
If violence occurs once in a dating relationship, it is likely to happen again
What is True
It is rare for someone to hit or otherwise abuse their partner once and never do it again.
Meditation, hobby & creative time are examples of self-care for people with this love language
What is quality time