Don't Be A Bully
What is a Bystander?
A bystander is anyone who is aware that bullying is happening.
What does Empathy mean?
Feeling or understanding how someone else is feeling.
Give and example of a common interpersonal conflict that happens at school.
Disagreements about what to do at recess, disagreements about rules of games played at recess, arguments with friends, disagreements about how a class project should be done etc.
What is Miss Haynes’ favorite football team?
The New England Patriots
What is the definition of bullying?
Bullying is when someone keeps being mean to someone else on purpose. It is unfair and one-sided.
Give an example of how you can show empathy and kindness at school.
Notice how others are feeling and do something to help them feel better. Play with them if they seem lonely, ask if they are ok if someone seems upset, help someone up if they have fallen etc.
What happens to a conflict if you do not take time to think through your response or how you are communicating?
The conflict will escalate, you may regret saying or doing something you don't mean, you may hurt the other person etc.
Who is Miss Haynes’ favorite football player?
Tom Brady
What are the 3 R’s of bullying?
Name 3 ways to calm your body when you have a strong emotion.
Slow breathing, walk away, listening to music, physical activity, doing something creative, etc.
How can using empathy help solve our problems?
It shows that we care about the other person, we make sure that everyone gets what they need or want, we think about how the other person is feeling about what is happening etc.
Where is Miss Haynes from? Or name somewhere Miss Haynes used to live.
Oregon, Vancouver, Spokane, Montana
What are 3 things you can you do to help someone being bullied?
Report what is happening to an adult, Refuse by standing up to the bully, and offer support and encouragement to the person being bullied.
Why should we manage our emotions and try to calm down if we have a strong emotion?
We may say or do something that we regret, we may hurt someone else, feelings can be uncomfortable and we don't want to feel that way forever.
What does each letter of STEP stand for in problem solving?
S: Say the problem
T: Think of solutions
E:Expolre the outcomes
P: Pick a solution
Name a college team that Ms. Haynes roots for?
Oregon Ducks, Gonzaga Bulldogs, Montana Grizzlies
What is a rumor and why shouldn't we spread rumors?
Rumors are stories, often about other people, that are passed on to multiple people. They are often harmful, they change overtime, and is a form of bullying etc.
What do emotions tell us?
Emotions give us information. Examples: if we are scared, our emotions tells there may be something dangerous around. If we are sad, that tells us we really care about something or that we may need help.
Describe or give examples of the difference between aggressive, passive, and assertive communication?
Aggressive: loud, in the other persons face, blaming, negative communication, often yelling or arguing about what you want.
Passive: quiet, unresponsive, timid and small communication, often you are not saying what you need or want.
Assertive: telling what you need or want with a reason in a respectful, strait-forward way.
What is Miss Haynes’ favorite fruit?
Pineapples