Abuse Basics
Red Flags!
Cycle of Violence
Miscellaneous
After Effects
100

Grabbing, Hitting, pushing and slapping are all signs of...

What is Physical Abuse
100
He or she tries to control your life, telling you whom you can and cannot see, how to dress and how to act.
What is Possessiveness/controlling
100

Name the three types of abuse

Mental, Emotional, Physical

100
Can dating abuse happen to you?
Yes
100
Name a reason why he/she would stay with the abuser?
What is ...
200
low self esteem, fearing your partner, depression, name calling are all signs of...
What is Emotional Abuse
200
You feel afraid to break up with your partner because of what they might do to you or to themselves...
What is fear/intimidation
200

In this stage abusive incidents occur (verbal abuse, psychological abuse). The abuser tries to dominate their partner...

What is the violence stage
200
Give an example as to why it would continue due to "Hope".
-Hope that they will change. - Hope that things will get better.
200
Name an physical effect that may happen to the person being abused after he/she leaves the abuser
What is lack of appetite, weight loss, self harm
300

Give an example of Sexual Abuse?

Ignoring partners sexual choices, sexual assault, and sexual harassment.

300

Boyfriend/girlfriend becomes angry if you talk to anyone else. the most common early warning sign of abuse..

What is Jealousy
300

In this stage, the abuser may begin to feel remorse, guilty feelings, or fear that their partner will leave or call the police. The victim feels pain, fear, humiliation, disrespect, confusion, and may mistakenly feel responsible

Honeymoon/reconciliation phase 
300
Give an example as to why the cycle would continue because of "Fear"
What is They threatened you... -They said they will hurt you or your family - they said they will blackmail you by posting an inappropriate pic online - They will kill themselves if you break up with them
300
Name two people you should talk to if your partner is abusing you or you think your friend is being abused by their partner...
What is Parent, teacher,  counselor, police
400

showing up at someones school, home or work announced and uninvited..

What is stalking
400
Yells, punches walls, screams, or threatens to hurt you.
What is Explosive anger
400
In this stage, the problems start to come to the surface. Possibly some "red flags" are exposed.
What is Tension Building
400

Give an example as to why it would continue because of "Love".

-They think they are in love. -They think the abuser loves them. -They think they can only be loved by the abuser.

400

Name an emotional effect that abuse can have on the abused.

What is ... not trusting anyone, low self esteem, anxiety sadness/depression, self blame, guilt, confusion

500

Using your social media account without permission or demanding access to your phone.

What is digital abuse

500
This may affect a person's mood and disposition, sometimes acting as a trigger for violence.
What is Alcohol/Drug Abuse
500

In this stage the relationship is relatively calm and peaceable. During this period the abuser may agree to engage in counseling, ask for forgiveness,  gifts, promises and personality changes could occur.


What is the Calm Stage 
500

Respect, support, equality, responsibility, accountability, honesty, trust, boundaries, communication, equality.

What is a healthy relationship 

500

Name two more warning signs.

Extreme Jealousy, Controlling, Isolation, Blames Others for Problems and Mistakes, Makes Everyone Else Responsible for Feelings, Hypersensitivity, Cruelty to Animals and Children, Verbal Abuse, Demanding, Sudden Mood Swings, Past Battering, Threats of Violence and Mr. Wonderful.

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