Goals
True or false: Getting What You Want From Another Person looks like getting another person to stop doing what they are already doing and do something for you.
What is false
ASKING for what you want or SAYING NO clearly. Do not assume that others will figure out what you want. Remember that others cannot read your mind.
a. describe
b. express
c. assert
d. reinforce
What is c. assert
Offer and ask for other solutions to the problem. Reduce your request. Say no, but offer to do something else or to solve the problem another way. Focus on what will work.
a. stay mindful
b. describe
c. appear confident
d. negotiate
What is d. negotiate
What color are Flamingoes born as?
What is Flamingoes aren’t born pink. They actually come into the world with grey/white feathersand only develop a pinkish hue after starting a diet of brine shrimp and blue-green algae.
You remember more dreams when you sleep good or bad.
What is bad?
Acting in such a way that the other person keeps liking and respecting you.
a. objectives effectiveness
b. relationship effectiveness
c. self-respect effectiveness
d. none of the above
What is b. relationship effectiveness
______ your FEELINGS and OPINIONS about the situation. Don’t assume that the other person knows how you feel. “When you come home so late, I start worrying about you.” Use phrases such as “I want” instead of “You should,”
a. describe
b. express
c. assert
d. reinforce
What is b. express
Maintain your position. Don’t be distracted. Don’t get off the topic. “Broken record”: Keep asking, saying no, or expressing your opinion over and over and over. Just keep replaying the same thing again and again.
a. stay mindful
b. describe
c. appear confident
d. negotiate
What is a. stay mindful
Animals can be allergic to what other animal?
What is humans.
About 90% of brain development takes place by age _____
What is 5
Acting in a way that makes you feel capable and effective.
a. objectives effectiveness
b. relationship effectiveness
c. self-respect effectiveness
d. none of the above
What is c. self-respect effectiveness
______ the person ahead of time (so to speak) by explaining positive effects of getting what you want or need. If necessary, also clarify the negative consequences of not getting what you want or need.
a. describe
b. express
c. assert
d. reinforce
What is d. reinforce
Which is the correct way to describe a current interaction:
“You keep asking me over and over, even though I have already said no several times,” or
“You obviously don’t want to hear what I am saying”
What is “You keep asking me over and over, even though I have already said no several times,”
How old is the Earth?
Earth is 4.54 billion years old.
You could _______ when you're anxious to alert others.
(physical reaction)
What is sweat?
Saying no to an unwanted or unreasonable request.
a. objectives effectiveness
b. relationship effectiveness
c. self-respect effectiveness
d. none of the above
What is a. objectives effectiveness
EFFECTIVE and competent. Use a confident voice tone and physical manner; make good eye contact.
a. stay mindful
b. describe
c. appear confident
d. negotiate
What is c. appear confident
Yes or No: Is this a correct way to assert wishes in a situation: “You should really calm down and do what’s right here.”
What is no, it should be: “Please don’t ask me again. My answer won’t change,” or “OK, let’s stop discussing this now and pick it up again sometime tomorrow”
All mammals get _______.
(physical reaction)
what is goosebumps
Some animals display ______-like traits.
(mental health disorder)
What is autistic
Objectives Effectiveness: Name 1 reason for Getting What You Want From Another Person. (from the slides)
What is:
•Obtaining your legitimate rights.
•Getting another person to do something you want that person to do.
•Saying no to an unwanted or unreasonable request.
•Resolving an interpersonal conflict.
•Getting your opinion or point of view taken seriously.
What does DEARMAN stand for?
•Describe
•Express
What is
•Assert
•Reinforce
•(Stay) Mindful
•Appear Confident
•Negotiate
Name 1 of the ways to APPLY DEARMAN skills?
(hint: 4 ways)
What is:
Express feelings or opinions about the interaction.
Describe the current interaction.
Assert wishes in the situation.
Reinforce.
Why do dogs tilt their heads?
Dogs tilt their heads when you speak to them to better pinpoint familiar words.
Martial artists who ______ before the start of a match are more likely to lose.
What is smile