Feelings Decoder
Body Clues
Big Feelings Survival Kit
My Brain Did What?!
Self-Care That Actually Works
100

This feeling can make your chest feel tight and your thoughts race. It’s not always logical but wants to protect you.

What is anxiety

100

Butterflies in your stomach, hands fidgety

What is nervousness or excitement

100

This soft, comforting object can help regulate your nervous system.

What is a stuffed animal

100

Everyone's thoughts and feelings are the same in similar situations.

True or false

False

100

How can you practice deep breathing?

Breathing in through mouth 4 seconds, holding for 4, and breathing out through mouth for 6

200

A hot, spiky feeling that shows up when something feels unfair or out of control.

What is anger

200

Your heart is beating fast and your muscles are tense—this might mean you're feeling…

What is anxious or alert

200

Holding this cold thing can jolt your system back into the present.

What is ice

200

Where in your body do you feel it first when your body gets mad or scared?

My tummy feels tight

My fist ball up


Answers may vary as long as you connected it with your body!!

200

Petting or playing with this fuzzy friend can calm your nervous system. 

What is a dog, cat, or comfort pet?

300

This emotion may cause tears and often shows up when we feel disconnected or something ends.

What is sadness

300

Sweaty palms, shaky voice, shallow breath: your body might be saying...

What is panic or overwhelm

300

Writing down your thoughts, even if no one sees it, is a way to release pressure.

What is journaling or writing a letter that you wont send

300

Is there a connection between thoughts, feelings and behavior?


True or False

True

Extra points if you know what this model is called!!!

300

Expressing your feelings through colors, shapes, or movement on paper. What is art or sensory drawing?

What is art or sensory drawing?

400

This big emotion often happens when we are surprised in an overwhelming way and can freeze us up.

What is fear or panic

400

When you’re overwhelmed, your brain might do this thing where it stops and you feel _________.

What is shutdown


400

These can drown out the noise in your brain and give you a sensory break.

What are headphones or music

400

Sometimes when feelings get too big, your brain might go into this state where you can’t talk. 

What is shutdown or selective mutism

400

This is a practice of letting yourself slowly change, instead of forcing a quick fix. 

What is transformation?

500

This emotion may appear when you think something bad might happen.



What is Worried


500

Your body is sending so many signals you can’t tell what’s what—everything’s loud inside.

What emotional flooding or meltdown or crashing out

500

A box, bag, or list of things that help you feel calm when emotions are high.

What is a calm kit or sensory box


500

This is when your brain replays a moment over and over, trying to make sense of it. 

What is a rumination loop or replaying a script or overthinking

500

Name three ways you can calm down when your emotions are just too big.

What is read, do a puzzle, listen to music, go lay down, cry, journal, color, draw, paint, count to 10 (or more), talk to school counselor, punch play doh, use a fidget, use a stress ball, talk with a trusted adult. 
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