•Scenario: Someone bumps into you in the hallway.
–'Watch where you're going!'
–Say 'you're good'
–Shoulder bump back
–Ignore and keep walking
•Escalate: 'Watch where you're going!', Shoulder bump back
•De-escalate: Say 'you're good', Ignore and keep walking
Scenario: Someone takes your seat.
–Slide your tray loudly
–Ask them to move politely
–Sit somewhere else
–Tell them to get lost
•Escalate: Slide your tray loudly, Tell them to get lost
•De-escalate: Ask them to move politely, Sit somewhere else
•Scenario: Your partner does nothing.
–Call them lazy
–Ask them to help
–Do it angrily
–Ask teacher for help
•Escalate: Call them lazy, Do it angrily
•De-escalate: Ask them to help, Ask teacher for help
•Scenario: Friend leaves you on read.
–Spam text them
–Ask later calmly
–Say 'wow fake friend'
–Wait and talk in person
•Escalate: Spam text them, Say 'wow fake friend'
•De-escalate: Ask later calmly, Wait and talk in person
•Scenario: Someone steps on your shoe.
–'You just ruined my shoes!'
–Check calmly
–Push them
–Say 'it's fine'
•Escalate: 'You just ruined my shoes!', Push them
•De-escalate: Check calmly, Say 'it's fine'
•Scenario: Friend eats your fries.
–Grab their food
–Ask them not to
–Roll your eyes and insult them
–Laugh it off
•Escalate: Grab their food, Roll your eyes and insult them
•De-escalate: Ask them not to, Laugh it off
•Scenario: Someone deletes your slide.
–Yell at them
–Ask what happened
–Blame them loudly
–Fix it together
•Escalate: Yell at them, Blame them loudly
•De-escalate: Ask what happened, Fix it together
•Scenario: They sit with someone else.
–Ignore them forever
–Join politely
–Say something rude
–Sit nearby
•Escalate: Ignore them forever, Say something rude
•De-escalate: Join politely, Sit nearby