Types of Families
Having a biological child is called
Birth
Which type of parenthood pressure is this?
TV, internet and social media may depict “perfect parenthood”
Social Pressure
What is an example of NEW RESPONSIBILITIES that parents have?
around the clock care of baby
(up in night, days and nights reversed)
diapered, bathed, bed, held, comforted
added laundry
According to the Vanier Institute, a family's responsibility is:
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Physical maintenance and care of group members
Addition of new members through procreation or adoption
Socialization of children
Social control of members
Production, consumption, distribution of goods and services
Affective nurturance – love
Legal process in which a couple has permanent rights to raise the child
Adoption
Which type of parenthood pressure is this?
I don't want kids because they cause too much pollution.
Personal Values / Environmental reasons
What are some examples of LIFESTYLE CHANGES that parents can expect?
strain on time and energy
less personal freedom
may be at home instead of working
lots of adjustments (physical body changes, social, routines, financial)
A new couple aims to build their relationship and learn relationship skills.
A couple with young children aims to...
Use their relationship and personal skills to teach and raise their children. Adapt to their new role.
Temporary (legal) custody when a parent/ parents are unable to care for the child
Foster
Which type of parenthood pressure is this?
In our culture, having multiple children shows wealth. Large families are better.
Cultural Influence
How can RELATIONSHIPS CHANGE after having children?
become tired & irritable
less time spent as a couple
may be more difficult for one partner or the other
What's wrong in the following scenario of a family with adolescents:
Jamie is 16 years old and wants to get his G2. His parent do not want him on the road by himself and when he's out, make sure to pick him up by 7pm.
Jamie (a teen) needs space to learn and to grow independently.
The family's job is to prepare him, support him, and "let go".
Marriage to someone who already has a child/children
Step-Parent
What are some things parents should consider before having children?
Schedules / Lifestyle
Support
Health
Personal situations (ex: Work, Housing)
Relationship strength
Financial
Etc
What are some REWARDS OF PARENTHOOD?
joy and satisfaction
sense of accomplishment
can enrich marriage (if already strong)
What's wrong in the following scenario of a family in later life:
Kennedy and Jon have a daughter who has moved away to university. Their lives were focused on parenting and their careers. Now they feel unsure about what to do besides work and watch tv.
Parents (families) in later life must maintain their own interests and adjust to new roles.
--> Trust in their daughter, build on their relationship, focus on retirement/interests.