Consent Check
Your date says, ‘Actually, I want to stop.’ This is what you should do next.
What is stop and respect their decision?
This is the name of NC State’s athletic teams: the ___.
What is the Wolfpack?
You see someone being bothered at a party and interrupt with, ‘Hey, come help me pick a song!’ Name this strategy.
What is distract (distraction)?
Your friend declines a hug. You say, ‘No problem!’ You are respecting this.
What is a boundary?
In Shrek, this talkative animal becomes Shrek’s sidekick.
Who is Donkey?
Someone agrees to a kiss. Does that automatically mean they agree to anything else?
What is no? Consent is specific to each activity.
This open campus plaza sounds like a place where building materials hang out.
What is the Brickyard?
You ask an event organizer or trusted friend to help with an uncomfortable situation. Name this strategy.
What is delegate (getting help)?
Before posting a photo of your friend, you ask this simple question.
What is ‘Is it okay if I post this?’ Accept equivalent wording.
This artist released the albums 1989 and Midnights.
Who is Taylor Swift?
Someone stays quiet and looks uncomfortable. Instead of assuming yes, do this.
What is pause and check in? Silence is not consent.
This campus tunnel is known for its constantly changing student-painted walls.
What is the Free Expression Tunnel?
When it feels safe, you say, ‘That comment isn’t okay. Please stop.’ Name this strategy.
What is direct intervention?
Your partner spends time with friends without you demanding their passwords or location. Name the green flag.
What is trust / respecting privacy and independence?
Who collaborated with Daft Punk on the Album Star Boy?
Who is the Weeknd?
Someone is asleep. Can they give consent to sexual activity?
What is no? A sleeping person cannot consent.
NC State’s Memorial Belltower honors alumni who died in this world war.
What is World War I?
You missed the moment, but later ask, ‘Are you okay? How can I support you?’ Name this strategy.
What is delay (checking in afterward)?
A friend shares an experience of harm. Give ONE supportive thing you could say.
What is ‘I believe you,’ ‘It’s not your fault,’ ‘Thank you for telling me,’ or ‘How can I support you?’ Accept equivalent supportive responses.
This sea animal has eight arms and three hearts.
What is an octopus?
A yes given after repeated guilt trips or threats is missing this essential part of consent.
What is being freely given? Pressure is not consent.
What was NC State's original mascot?
What is the bulldogs?
A friend freezes when someone keeps touching them. Give TWO safe ways to step in.
What are any two safe actions: create a distraction, check in, help them leave if they want, get a trusted person, or directly ask the person to stop if safe? Accept equivalent answers.
You apologize after crossing a boundary. Name TWO actions that make the apology meaningful.
What are acknowledging the harm, taking responsibility without excuses, listening, respecting the boundary, and changing your behavior? Accept any two.
What is the camp that Percy Jackson attends?
What is Camp Half-Blood?