Feel it, Name it
Coping Skills Toolkit
Boundaries Without Guilt
Kindness Starts With Me
Showing Up in Group
100

Happy, sad, angry, and worried are examples of what?

Emotions or feelings.

100

Name one activity someone could put in a personal coping toolbox.

Drawing, listening to music, journaling, walking, or another preferred activity.

100

Complete the sentence with a boundary: “I’m not available tonight, but .”

For example: “I can talk tomorrow.”

100

Name one personal strength someone might have.

Kindness, creativity, persistence, curiosity, or patience.

100

Name one way to participate without sharing a personal story.

Ask a question, answer a game clue, or contribute to a fictional scenario.

200

What feeling might someone have when plans they were excited about get canceled?

Disappointment, sadness, or frustration.

200

Someone needs a quiet break. Name one activity they could choose.

Sitting somewhere quiet, coloring, or listening to calming music.

200

Someone asks to borrow something you do not want to lend. Give a respectful response.

“I’m not comfortable lending that out.”

200

Finish this encouraging statement: “I don’t have to be perfect to .”

For example: learn, try, participate, or deserve respect.

200

You do not understand a word the facilitator uses. What could you say?

“Could you explain what that word means?”

300

Name two different emotions a person might feel about starting a new job.

Excitement and nervousness.

300

Name one coping activity that involves movement and one that does not.

For example: stretching and journaling

300

A conversation is becoming uncomfortable. What could you say to change the subject?

“I’d rather not discuss that. Can we talk about something else?”

300

Replace “I’m terrible at everything” with a kinder, more specific statement.

“This task was difficult for me, but that doesn’t describe everything I do.”

300

You want to respond, but another person is speaking. What could you do?

Wait for a pause or follow the group’s agreed way of taking turns

400

In this sentence, identify the feeling: “I feel lonely because I haven’t talked with anyone today.”

Lonely.

400

Your usual coping activity is unavailable. What could you do next?

Choose another activity or ask someone for support.

400

Rewrite this as a clear request: “You never give me any space!”

“I need 20 minutes alone before we talk.”

400

A friend says, “I made a mistake, so I’m a failure.” Give a compassionate response.

“One mistake doesn’t define you. What could you try next?”

400

Someone gives an answer different from yours. Give a respectful response.

“I see it differently,” or “That’s another way to look at it.”

500

Rewrite “I feel bad” using two more specific feeling words.

For example: “I feel disappointed and embarrassed.”

500

Make a three-step coping plan for this situation: “I’m overwhelmed by everything on my to-do list.”

For example: pause, choose one small task, and ask for help with another task.

500

A friend keeps asking after you have said no. Repeat your boundary without arguing.

“I understand you’re disappointed, but I’m still not available.”

500

Someone feels guilty about resting because their chores are unfinished. Write a balanced response.

“I still have things to do, and I can take a break before returning to them.”

500

ou are nervous about speaking. Name one small way you could join today’s activity.

Answer with a partner, read a clue aloud, ask one question, or contribute one word.

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