Observe, Describe, Participate
What is the "What Skills"
Do not judge, stay focused, meet "wise mind" goals
What is "How Skills"
Counting the number of times each player passed the ball.
What is "Observe"
"that kid is a jerk" vs. "I don't like the way he teases me"
What is - "Catch Your Judgments"
Hershey Kiss - the color is brown, the taste is sweet, the feel in my mouth is smooth
What is "Describe"
Do one thing at a time (no texting and talking)
Do not worry about what happened before or what is going to happen later
What is - "Stay Focused"
The macarena dance may be silly to some, but I get into it and have fun with it.
What is "Participate"
I was working on a hard science project. Frustrated, I felt the urge to go watch tv instead. I was a little more calm and focused on completing the project because I want to pass my class.
What is - "Wise Mind Goal"
WHAT to do and HOW to get to
What is "Wise Mind"
You label things "good" or "bad".
Focus your mind on right now!
Am I getting what I want in the long term?
What is - "How Skills"