Friendships
What is one pro of having a best friend?
Having someone you can trust, talk to, depend on, and share experiences with.
What is one pro of using social media?
Staying connected with friends and family, entertainment, or learning new things.
What is one pro of getting good grades?
More academic opportunities, increased confidence, and preparation for future goals.
What is one pro of having family support?
Having people to encourage you, help you through challenges, and provide emotional support.
What does the word PRO mean when making a decision?
A positive benefit or advantage of a choice.
What is one con of being friends with someone who constantly gets into trouble?
You may get pressured into making bad decisions, experience unnecessary drama, or face consequences for their actions.
What is one con of spending too much time on your phone?
Less sleep, distractions, reduced productivity, or less face-to-face interaction.
What is one con of procrastinating on assignments?
Increased stress, rushed work, missed deadlines, and lower grades.
What is one con of arguing with family members?
Damaged communication, hurt feelings, increased tension, and misunderstandings.
What does the word CON mean when making a decision?
A negative consequence, disadvantage, or drawback of a choice.
What are two signs of a healthy friendship?
Trust, honesty, respect, communication, support, and healthy boundaries. Any two.
What are two ways social media can negatively affect friendships?
Jealousy, misunderstandings, cyberbullying, comparing lifestyles, or spreading rumors.
What are two benefits of participating in extracurricular activities?
Making friends, learning new skills, building confidence, teamwork, and developing interests.
What are two benefits of communicating your feelings to your family?
Better understanding, stronger relationships, emotional support, and fewer misunderstandings.
Why is it important to think before making a decision?
To consider possible outcomes, avoid impulsive choices, and make decisions that support your goals.
Your friend pressures you to do something you know is wrong. What are the pros and cons of going along with it?
Pros: You may feel accepted or avoid conflict temporarily. Cons: You could get into trouble, regret your decision, or compromise your values.
Someone posts something embarrassing about you. What are the pros and cons of responding publicly versus handling it privately?
Publicly: Pro—You can defend yourself. Con—It may create more drama. Privately: Pro—You may resolve the issue calmly. Con—The person may ignore you or refuse to cooperate.
Your friends want you to skip class with them. What are the pros and cons of going along?
Pros: You may feel included or avoid feeling left out. Cons: Missing instruction, getting in trouble, falling behind, and disappointing people who trust you.
Your parents set rules that you think are unfair. What are the pros and cons of following the rules versus arguing about them?
Following: Pro: Avoiding conflict and showing responsibility. Con: You may feel unheard. Arguing: Pro: You express your opinion. Con: It may escalate the situation and make communication harder.
You are angry and want to send someone a hurtful text. What are the pros and cons of sending it versus waiting until you calm down?
Sending: Pro: You express your anger immediately. Con: You may hurt someone, escalate conflict, or regret it.
Waiting: Pro: You have time to think and respond calmly. Con: You may feel frustrated while waiting.
Your best friend tells your secrets to other people. What are your options, and what are the pros and cons of each?
Option 1: Talk to them. Pro: You can communicate your feelings. Con: They may become defensive. Option 2: Set boundaries. Pro: Protects your privacy. Con: The friendship may become distant. Option 3: End the friendship. Pro: Protects your peace. Con: You may lose someone important to you.
You notice that social media is affecting your confidence and mood. What are three possible solutions, and what are the pros and cons of each?
1. Take a social media break. Pro: Less comparison. Con: You may feel disconnected. 2. Unfollow negative accounts. Pro: A healthier feed. Con: You may feel pressure to explain. 3. Limit screen time. Pro: More time for other activities. Con: It takes self-discipline.
You are struggling in school but feel embarrassed to ask for help. What are the pros and cons of speaking up versus staying quiet?
Speaking up: Pro: You can receive support and improve. Con: You may initially feel embarrassed. Staying quiet: Pro: You avoid an uncomfortable conversation temporarily. Con: Your struggles may continue or get worse.
You feel like your family doesn't understand you. What are three healthy ways to address the situation, and what are the pros and cons of each?
1. Have an honest conversation. Pro: Improves understanding. Con: May be uncomfortable.
2. Write a letter. Pro: Allows you to organize your thoughts. Con: May not lead to immediate discussion.
3. Talk to a trusted adult. Pro: You receive guidance and support. Con: You may feel nervous about opening up.
You have two choices: make a decision that makes you happy right now or one that benefits you in the long run. How would you weigh the pros and cons?
Immediate happiness may feel good temporarily, but long-term benefits may support your goals, health, relationships, or future. Consider the consequences of both before deciding.