Communication
Healthy/Unhealthy Relationships
Conflict
Boundaries
True and False?
100
What is one way to ensure that you and your partner/friend are communicating effectively?
Be honest, listen, ask questions
100
Why do people in a violent relationship not tell anybody?
Because their partner usually threatens violence.
100
Is conflict the same thing as fighting?
No.
100

What are boundaries?

 knowing what one wants and expects from the people in their life, and what they’ll accept from them—and then clearly, concisely, and calmly stating those ground rules.

100
True or False: Only 7% of students will call the police if they are in an abusive relationship.
True.
200
What are some signs that you are not communicating effectively with your partner/friend?
Being afraid to express wants, needs, fears, ect. or dreading/avoiding conversations about difficult topics
200
Your partner/friend gets angry when you talk to your family. What type of relationship is this?
Unhealthy relationship.
200
What is one unhealthy way to engage in conflict?
Yelling, shouting, blaming, or hitting.
200
Is it okay for you and your partner to argue?
Yes, but only occasionally, not all of the time.
200
True or False: If your partner doesn't laugh at your jokes or introduce you to his/her family, means that your relationship is abusive.
False.
300
What is something you should notice or pay attention to when having a conversation with your partner/friend?
Nonverbal communication; body language and "listen"
300
You and your partner spend every available minute with each other.
Unhealthy relationship. It is important to have time to oneself to ensure a healthy relationship.
300
What is one way you can avoid making your partner/friend defensive when talking about a difficult issue?
Use "I" statements, talk about your own feelings, try to understand where the other person is coming from, avoid accusing the other person.
300

Why are boundaries important in a relationship?

They provide clear understanding of a partners comfortability levels
300
True or False: If your partner yells at you, or gets very frustrated with you, it is a sign that always says, "Time to find someone else".
False, just because he/she argues with you a little bit does not mean you need to leave him/her.
400
True or False: If your partner yells at you, or gets very frustrated with you, it is a sign that always says "Time to find someone else".
False, just because he/she argues with you a little bit, does not mean you need to leave him/her.
400
Your partner/friend encourages you to pursue your dreams. What type of relationship is this?
Healthy relationship
400
What is something you can do to cool down during a disagreement?
Take a time-out from the disagreement or limit your discussion time.
400
Talking about a conflict and reaching an agreement is called what?
A negotiation.
400
True or False: If your partner abuses you, it is usually physically
False. It is just as likely to be emotional or verbal.
500
A disagreement about beliefs, ideas, or interests
Conflict.
500
Your partner/friend is constantly keeping tabs on what you are doing and who you are with. What kind of relationship is this?
Unhealthy relationship.
500
What are two ways that can turn a conflict into a fight?
Making threats, giving ultimatums, accusing without listening, not willing to apologize or take blame, getting physical with your partner/friend.
500

What are 3 signs that one's boundaries aren't being respected?

- your feelings are hurt too often or too easily

- you hold back from standing up for yourself because you don't want to hurt anyone

- You find it easier to give than to receive

- What you ask for isn't being respected

500
True or False: In an abusive relationship, your partner will always be violent.
False, they may only yell at you or put you down, they don't always hurt you.
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