Facebook, Instagram, Twitter
What are examples of social media?
Someone is nice to you, invites you to activities, responds to your requests to hang out, shares with you, and you have common interests.
What are qualities of a good/appropriate friend?
Give an example of using humour to deal with being teased
- I know right
- Tell me about it
This is the first step in the Problem Solving Cycle.
What is Define the Problem?
Who should we introduce ourselves too?
New classmates
New teachers
New neighbours (with parent)
New peers in a group (i.e., sports, club, group)
Teasing, mocking, or general bullying that takes place using technology (cell phones, social media, websites, etc.)
What is cyberbullying?
These are usually the closest people to you in your friendship circle chart.
Who is your family?
Can friends tease each other? Give an example
Yes
Having funny nicknames for your friends
This size of problem involves things like hitting, getting lost, and bullying.
What is Size 4, gigantic problem?
I see someone on the street. Should I introduce myself to this person?
No, they are a stranger.
Use a different username and password for each website, keep your passwords to yourself, and not using simple/easy passwords.
What are ways to protect/secure your information online?
They laugh at you not with you, they ignore you, they make jokes at your expense or make rude comments to you, or they are 10 years older/younger than you with no common interests.
What are the qualities of a bad/inappropriate friend?
You are walking down the hall at school and someone calls you a name as you pass them. What would you do?
Use one of the strategies from last week.
This size of a problem can include feeling sick or tired, being afraid, or someone bothering you.
What is Size 2, Medium problem?
Give an example of how you would introduce yourself to someone in a new classroom (i.e., the teacher or a classmate)
Follow the steps to success
Ignore, tell a parent/guardian or trusted adult, and report it to the website/company
What are examples of things you can do if you are being cyberbullied?
You are less likely to be bullied, you have more people to talk to, you can feel less lonely, there are more people for you to hang out with
What are the reasons for having an appropriate group of friends?
What is the difference between being assertive versus being aggressive?
Assertive is being confident, standing tall, and speaking your mind calmly.
Aggressive is when you attack another person or react in an angry way, which can lead to bigger issues.
Define the problem, brainstorm solutions, pick a solution, try the solution, review how it went.
What is the Problem Solving Cycle?
What are the steps to introducing yourself?
1. Move closer to them
2. Wait for a break or pause in what they are doing
3. Say "Hello"
4. Say "My name is . What is your name?"
5. Say "It's nice to meet you"
They may not be who they say they are, it can put you in danger.
What are reasons you should not share personal information with someone you met online/social media?
One is someone you have common interests and share a close connection with that outside your family. The other is a general term that defines your connections with the different people in your life.
What is the difference between a friendship and a relationship?
What is the difference between reporting and tattling?
Reporting is when you tell an adult when someone is being bullied or at risk of physical harm. You report to help someone.
Tattling is when you see someone doing something against the rules and tell an adult to get someone in trouble. We should not tattle because it doesn't involve us.
Stop, state the problem, relax, think of solutions, and make a good choice
What are the steps for Reactive Problem Solving?
What are the differences in how you introduce yourself to an adult versus a peer?
With an adult, you are speaking more formally and often include a handshake.
With a peer, introducing yourself is more relaxed and often doesn't include hand gestures at all.