Including others
If you see a kid standing by themselves at recess, what could you do?
include them?
Invite the kid to join you in a game or activity.
What qualities make someone a good friend?
Trustworthy
kind
flexible
fun
If you're all crowded on the ramp, how can you be mindful of others?
Walk carefully
don't swing your backpack, umbrella or instrument
don't bumped into someone
What do you and your friends like to do during
recess?
Recess activities
Your friend just made fun of your science fair project that you worked really hard on and you feel hurt. What do you say/do to your friend?
Use an I-message to let them know how you feel.
I feel ________
when you_______
please make it right.
If a new kid comes to school, how can you make them feel welcome?
Introduce yourself and tell them about how things work at Arbor View.
What qualities would make a bad friend or someone who is not a "true friend"?
dishonest
all about me
doesn't share
What can you say to a friend who has been unkind?
I don't like what you did, can you please stop?
I don't like what you said/did.
Do friends have to like all the same things? Why?
Friends can like some of the same things and some different things.
Your friend is annoying you with the same joke over and over. He thinks he is funny but you feel annoyed. What do you say/do to your friend?
It was only funny the first time.
Stop it.
That's enough already.
Why is it important to NOT talk about birthday parties & playdates in front of others who are not invited?
It will make them feel excluded or like there is something wrong with them.
How can you comfort a friend who is upset or hurt?
Are you okay?
What can I do to make things right with you?
What can I do to help you feel better?
How can you comfort someone who is not a friend?
Ask them if they are okay?
What happened? Let them know you are here for them.
What things have you learned from a friend?
How to _______.
Can you be friends with someone different than you? What do you say/do to your friend?
Yes, because everyone is unique.
Where is the buddy bench located? What color is it and what does it mean if someone is sitting on the buddy bench
The buddy bench is a place to sit if you would like a peer to come ask you to play or if you feel lonely.
What's the difference between an aquaintance and a friend?
An aquaintance is someone you know of.
A friend is a person you know about.
Your close friend seemed like they were ignoring you during recess when you tried to talk to them. You feel worried and hurt...what should you do next?
Say, "Did I do something to upset you?"
I sense that you're ignoring me, what's up?
You want to play kickball during recess and your friend wants to play gaga ball instead. How do you work it out?
Play kickball today and gaga ball tomorrow.
First we will play ______ and then we will play ______.
You are playing with the soccer ball during recess and your friend wants to use the ball for a different game. What do you say/do to your friend?
Tell them they can have it when you are done.
Give them the ball
Play something different
How can you include others in a game that has already started?
Become a referee
Play the winner
Play together at the next break
Join at the next opportunity
How were you a good friend today? What did you do or say?
For example, I was a good friend when I helped my friend with a new math problem.
or when I helped my friend with their backpack when they broke their arm.
or when I asked my friend how their weekend was.
Your friend made a joke about you.
How do you feel?
What can you say or do?
I don't like it when you said_______.
Please stop.
Knock it off. I don't like that.
You realized you hurt your friend's feelings. What can you say or do to make it right?
I'm sorry for ______.
I didn't mean to hurt your feelings.
What can I do to make it up to you?
Your classmate is goofing off and keeps trying to talk to you during work time. You want to focus on your work and are concerned you’ll get in trouble, but you also don’t want to be rude to your classmate. What could you say or do?
Give the silent "Sh"
Ignore the friend.