School
A peer is talking out loud in class while you are trying to work on an assignment. It is very distracting!
Little Deal. BONUS: come up with an I statement to say to this classmate
While waiting in line at Dunkin Donuts, you stop to tie your shoe. Another kids walks in and cuts in front of you on the line.
Little Deal. Would you say something or let it go?
You get grounded for swearing at your sibling.
Little Deal. BONUS: Is it normal to be angry about this?
You see a classmate cheating on a test by looking at someone else's paper.
Medium Deal. BONUS: Give 2 options of how to deal with this, one inappropriate and one appropriate.
You are looking around the class and you see a peer picking their nose.
Little Deal. BONUS: how could you say something without embarassing your classmate?
While eating out at Mimi's, your friend spills his drink all over you! He laughs and call you "pee pee pants."
Medium deal. What might you need help with in this problem?
Your little brother deletes your favorite downloaded game off your PS4. All your progress in the game has been lost!
Medium Deal. How can you calmly cmmunicate to an adult at home what happened?
You have a secret crush none of your friends know about. Your crush asks out your friend instead of you!
Little Deal? Medium Deal? What do you think?
Your friend tells you: "Bill has been waiting by my classroom everyday just to make fun of me. Today, he even shoved me! It makes me not want t come to school."
Big Deal, this counts as bullying.
Your friend tells you he is fed up with his parents fighting and he has a plan to run away from home.
Big Deal. BONUS: who could you talk to to help your friend?
You find out that your grandma is sick and is in the hospital.
Big Deal. BONUS: who could you talk to about this to share your feelings?
At the park you see a group of kids throwing rocks at squirrels and birds
Medium Deal. BONUS: what would you do?
While reading something out loud to the class, you mispronounce a word. A peer laughs at you.
Little Deal. While this was not nice, it does not count as bullying.
You get invited to a friend's house but your parents won't let you go anywhere because of COVID-19
You come home to find that your dog has gotten into a stash of old halloween candy. He has eaten a lot of chocolate!
Big Deal!
Your friend swipes an ice cream out of the freezer at the gas station and dares you to steal one as well. Based on what choice you make, how big is this problem?
Walk away: Little Deal
Steal: Big Deal!
Mr. Copani comes on the announcments and says "we are now in a lockdown."
Big Deal: BONUS: what is your classroom protocol for a lockdown drill?
While out riding your bike, you see smoke coming out of your neighbor's window
Big Deal!
You and your sister got into a big fight over who got the last piece of candy. It escalated into hitting each other! Now, no one gets the candy and your mom is making you apologize to each other.
Medium Deal. Slow down and think, whats the best way to apologize?
Right in the middle of a Battle Royale, your dad tells you to get off Xbox for the night. You really want to finish the round. What choice will keep this problem small?
Just get off the Xbox even though it's hard! If you argue/ignore, this problem will get bigger!