Social Skill Scenarios
You are getting frustrated while playing a game. What is one thing you can do to calm down?
Take a few deep breaths, count slowly to 10, take a break or get a drink of water.
TRUE OR FALSE: Someone online asks for your full name, home address, and school. It is okay to give it to them.
FALSE. It is not safe to give someone your full name, home address, or school, especially if you don't know them in person.
Why is it important to wear deodorant and shower?
Showering and using deodorant help keep your body clean and make sure we don't smell bad! Staying clean will help you feel comfortable and confident.
What makes someone a good friend?
They include you to make you feel welcome, and give you space when you need it, and they try to support you when having a hard time.
Who are some "trusted adults" in your life?
"Trusted adults" are people who make you feel safe, are good listeners and are helpful when you are facing a challenge. They could be your parents, a teacher, or your therapist!
Your friend doesn't say hello when they walk past you. Does that automatically mean they're mad at you?
No. they could be distracted, tired, or maybe they didn't see you.
TRUE OR FALSE: It is ok to look into someone's belongings when they aren't looking.
FALSE. It is not ok to go through someone else's belongings, especially when they aren't looking.
How often should we brush our teeth?
We should brush our teeth at least twice a day.
If someone has something you want to use should you go up and take it?
No. You should politely ask if you can use it after them.
What should you do if you become separated from your group in a public space?
Take a deep breath. Go to a safe and public location. Ask an adult for help.
You start feeling angry and want to yell. What is one thing you could do before responding?
Take a deep breath, stretch or move your body, take a few minutes to do something relaxing.
TRUE OR FALSE: It is okay to run up to someone and hug them without asking first.
FALSE. We always want to ask if a hug is okay beforehand. We must respect their answer and not force a hug.
What are two healthy foods that we could eat for a snack?
Strawberries, blueberries, apples, bananas, carrots, cucumbers...
What are some activities that you can do alone?
Watch YouTube, listen to music, exercise, and clean.
Can you change your mind after saying "yes" to something?
YES! You can always change your mind at any time.
You're at school and accidentally bump into someone. What could you say?
"Oops! I'm sorry. I didn't mean to bump into you. Are you okay?". Apologizing shows that you know what happened and care about the other person's feelings.
TRUE OR FALSE: You should not share your passwords with friends.
TRUE. Passwords should be kept private to you and a "trusted adult".
You have a question about your health. Should you ask someone online or watch a random YouTube video for the answer?
No. If you have a question about your health, you should talk to a "trusted adult" or ask a doctor.
What is a boundary?
A boundary is a rule about what you are comfortable with and what you are not comfortable with. Boundaries help keep you and other people safe and comfortable.
What is something you can do if you feel unsafe?
Move to another location and talk to a "trusted adult" for help.
It is getting cold outside, and your teacher or parent reminds you to put on your coat before going outside. What should you do?
Put on your coat and any other clothing you need to stay warm. This helps protect your body from the cold and keeps you comfortable and safe.
TRUE OR FALSE: If someone keeps picking on someone after they have asked them to stop multiple time, it is okay because they are just joking.
FALSE. If someone asks you to stop, you should respect their feelings and boundaries.
Why is it important to wash your hands?
Washing our hands removes germs and helps to stop anyone from getting sick.
Your mom is talking to you, but you are busy watching a video. What is a respectful thing you can do?
Pause the game, look towards her, listen to what she is saying, and respond when she is done talking.
Before crossing the road, what should you always do?
Stop, look both ways, and cross when it is safe.