Emotional Intelligence
Toolbox Tools
Common Dangers
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Manners
100

Joyful, confident, peaceful

What is HAPPY/feeling happy?

100

Headphones/earmuffs

What is the Quiet/Safe Place Tool?

100

This large mammal has already caused a "secure" response at school this year.

What is a bear?

100

I can calm myself and check in.

What is the Breathing Tool?

100

Your response when someone does something nice for you.

What is "thank you"?

200

Lonely, down in the dumps

What is SAD/feeling sad?

200

Ball of yarn

What is the Personal Space Tool?

200

An electrical interaction between clouds and the ground.

What is lightning? 

200

I care for myself. I care for others.

What is the Empathy Tool?

200

The expected social interaction when someone is talking with you.

What is eye contact?

300

Wishing you had what someone else has.

What is JEALOUSY/feeling jealous?

300

Watch

What is the Taking Time Tool?
300

Talking about someone when they're not there.

What is gossip?

300

I let the little things go.

What is the Garbage Can Tool?

300

Something you can do to support a balanced conversation.

What is asking questions?

400

Mad, hurt, frustrated

What is ANGER/feeling angry?

400

Glue

What is the Apology & Forgiveness Tool?

400

This mode of communication usually makes arguments SO MUCH WORSE.

What is texting?

400

I treat others with kindness and appreciation.

What is the Please & Thank You Tool?

400

Something you can do when you see someone with their hands full walking up to the door.

What is holding/getting/opening the door for them?

500
In order to know what you are or what anyone else is feeling, you need to listen with...

What is YOUR EYES, EARS, and HEART?

500

A caged lantern

What is the Courage Tool?

500

This device has the potential to create drama, big friendship problems, and even legal trouble.

What is a cellphone?

500

I am strong enough to wait.

What is the Patience Tool?

500

At ACS, we want all people to feel these three things.

What are SAFE, WELCOME, and INCLUDED?

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