Name the “How” skills
When should you use opposite action?
What holiday is typically the busiest day of the year for restaurants?
Mother's Day
T/F: you can only set boundaries at the beginning of the relationship.
False. You can set boundaries at any point during the relationship.
What is radical acceptance?
Complete and total acceptance of the facts of reality
What is beginner’s mind?
Approaching each moment as if meeting it for the first time.
What is the first step when using opposite action?
Identify and name the emotion you want to change
What are the names of the main characters on the sitcom Friends?
What boundaries include not taking on others’ distress or expecting them to take on yours?
Emotional boundaries
How does DBT define suffering?
Pain + nonacceptance
What is Emotion Mind?
When you are ruled by your moods, feelings, and urges to do or say things. When facts, reason, and logic are not important.
T/F: Using opposite action means the initial emotion was wrong (i.e. you shouldn’t have felt that way)
False. It just means the initial emotion urge might not be effective. Emotions are always valid, just not always sound!
Carl Fredricksen is the protagonist of what Pixar movie?
Up
What are psychological boundaries?
Information about yourself, your thoughts and beliefs, and your values
T/F: Accepting something is the same as being in approval of it
False
What is the difference between Observing and Describing?
What is the opposite action for Love?
Avoid. Stay Away
Blinky, Pinky, Inky, and Clyde are the antagonists of what popular video game?
Pac-Man
Healthy boundaries allow us to do what?
Have meaningful relationships without taking on others’ distress and problems, and without being isolated and alone
Name two Reality Acceptance Skills.
Name a goal of Mindfulness Practice
Name a goal of Emotion Regulation
What is the southernmost state of the United States of America?
Hawai'i
What does BOUNDARY stand for?
What is Willingness?
Readiness to enter and participate fully in life and living. To do what is needed, wholeheartedly, without dragging your feet.