Friendship Builders
Does not interrupt her friends and gives you undivided attention
The Good Listener
Forced to pick sides, feels like she can't please either friend, and feels uncomfortable
Caught in the Middle
A friend says something mean about another student
Talking about another person. Stop them, it's not cool to talk about someone else
You roll your eyes when another girl shares an idea
Not valued for what she shares, feeling like she doesn't belong in that group/setting.
Name one positive quality you have as a friend.
Kind, Helpful, Honest, Funny, Good listener, Supportive
Talks about you in a positive way, and can count on you thru good and bad
The Supporter
Seems to think she is in competition with everyone around her
The Story Topper
A friend tells you her cat died. You start talking about your dog
You are not giving her the support that she may need by making it about your experience.
Your teammate makes a mistake during the game
Encourage them and say mistakes happen. Be supportive instead of blaming them.
What can you do if you realize you hurt someone’s feelings?
Apologize, Listen to them, Try to make it right, Change the behavior next time
Uses kind words, celebrates wins to show support, and inspires others
The Encourager
Makes and breaks plans
The Plan Changer
Your friend feels nervous about a presentation
Send them positive vibes, give them confidence that they will do great. Let them do a practice run
You hear someone making fun of your friend
Tell them to stop. Support your friend. Walk away and get help from an adult.
What is one way you can help stop drama with friends?
Not gossip, talk directly to the person, ignore rumors. Be kind instead of joining in
Accepts apologies, doesn't bring up the past, and understands friendships have difficulties
The Problem Solver
Likes the power when others do what she says. Gets mad about different opinions
The Boss
Your friend borrows your NeeDoh but often loses things
Politely saying no, offering to use it together, setting a boundary
You share private family news about your friend.
Apologize to your friend. Admit it was not your information to share. Respect your friend’s privacy next time.
What should you do if you notice you’re being unkind?
Stop the behavior, apologize, think before speaking, choose a kinder response
Consider her actions, thinks about others' perspectives to avoid misunderstandings
The Perspective Taker
Likes when she has information that nobody else knows, finds enjoyment in sharing information
The Gossiper
You make the group stop hanging out with one person because you have a problem with this person
Do not tell others what to do. Not necessary to convince others to do the same.
You promised a friend lunch in the library but went walking with another friend.
Feel hurt, left out, disappointed. Apologize and explain honestly. Keep your promise next time.
What is one way you can be a better friend this week?
Include others, give compliments, help someone, listen to friends, encourage others