Rejection From Peers/School Counselor
Where did I use to live?
Charleston, South Carolina
Yes
Is feeling angry normal? Yes or No
Yes, feeling angry is normal
Was Squeaker a Dolphin, a clam, or a Octopus?
Dolphin
Name one way you know a conflict is happening?
You experience and or see or hear
1. Crying & Frustration
2. Name Calling and hurtful comments
3. Physical (pushing, hitting, shoving)
What high school did I go to?
Haverford High School
What was Clark the Shark doing in the video that was hurting his friendships with the other sharks, Name 2 things?
1. Playing Rough
2. Not respecting the other sharks and eating their lunches
3. Does not respect the other sharks privacy/personal space
The things or situations that make us angry our know as?
An_ _ _ Tri _ _ _ _ _
Because his babysitter Olga the Octopus was rubbing his arm and touching his back
Can conflict turn into someone getting physically hurt? Yes or No
Yes-Conflict can absolutely turn physical
Do you remember the video/book we read about being left out? (Hint: A big bear on the front)
"We Are Not Friends"
What book did I read to you?
"Clark the Shark"
What game did we play during our "Feeling Angry" lesson? (Hint: I love this chocolate candy!)
The M&M Game
What are the 3 Personal Safety Rules?
1. Say No
2. Get away
3. Tell a grown up who can help
What is a Conflict?
A conflict is when 2 people have a misunderstanding or disagreement and or have different views and opinions on things.
Name 2 things we can do to support a classmate who is being left out?
1. Include them
2. Ask them to play
3. Talk to them and be kind
Name 2 behaviors that are hurtful to our friendships?
1. Being mean
2. Being Bossy
3. Not playing fair
4. Not sharing
5. Not respecting friends personal space
Name 2 things that can help calm us down when we are angry?
1. Self-Talk
2. Doing something fun
3. Talking to someone
4. Go on a walk
5. Count to 10
6. Exercise
7. Journal/Read/Write
8. Take deep breaths
Someone shows you an inappropriate picture and tells you if you tell on them they will beat you up after school? Is this a Safe or Unsafe secret?
Unsafe Secret
What is an I Message?
A way to express what we n_ _ _ and F_ _ _ without making the other person feel att_ _ _ _ _
Name 2 things you can do when you are feeling left out?
1. Do an activity you enjoy
2. Choose someone else to play with
3. Ask to join in
4. Remember things you love
Name 3 behaviors that help friendships?
1. Sharing and taking turns
2. Having a positive attititude
3. Respecting your friends privacy and personal space
4. Being a good listener to your friends
5. Being kind and showing you care
6. Communicating
7. Including others
What are the 3 Anger Rules?
1. Don't Hurt Y _ _ _ _ _ _ _
2. Don't Hurt O _ _ _ _ _
3. Don't Destroy P_ _ _ _ _ _ _
If someone tells you that they are planning a big surprise party for one of your siblings or a parent, is this a safe secret or an unsafe secret?
Safe Secret
What are the 3 things you say in a I Message?
1. I Feel/felt
2. When
3. I want you to or Can you Please