Thinking Errors
I think I am different or better than others!
What is False/Criminal Pride
I have no control over other people, places, or things. I ask for what I need and accept what others can give me.
What is "I control Only My Behavior"
Cheeseburgers
"I really don't do anything wrong. I guess I just smoke weed."
What is Lying/Minimizing?
"I don't care that he had a bad family session... he shouldn't have sat in my seat."
What is Lack of Empathy?
When I say "I can't," I really mean "I won't."
What is Lack of Initiative/ Effort
I do not own other people, places, or things. I care about doing what is right. I care about not hurting others' feeling or bodies.
What is "Think of Others?"
What is your Coping Skill?
YOU BETTER KNOW IT.
"I'm not participating in group. If you give me a consequence, I'm going to flip this ......."
What is Power Thrusting?
"I'm sorry Judge. I really didn't mean to drink and drive and hit that car. BUT, I had to leave the party because I had a bad feeling."
What is Excuse Making
"It was his/her fault I did that." "They made me mad."
Victim Stance
I am not anyone's victim. I do not blame others for my behavior.
What is "Victim NO more."
What kind of pet does Lancaster have?
Hedgehog
"It's not my fault my homework isn't done. Mr. Arvin put me on a SCO (which I also didn't deserve) and I missed therapeutics"
What is Victim Stance?
Even though I asked the Group Leaders what I needed to do to earn my level... I didn't hear anything they said. They were lying about my negative behaviors. I know I'm right.
What is Concrete Thinking?
"As long as I can come up with an excuse, I can't be accused of irresponsible behavior."
What is Excuse Making?
I work even when the task or job is boring-hard work pays- I say "I can do this. I can get sober even though it is really hard."
What is The Worker
Who does this song belong to??
DEAR MAMA
Who is Tupac?
"Coombs, Lancaster and Arvin said that I can stay out for EFT even though I didn't earn it because I did good in one group." (Even though I know they didn't say that.)
What is Failure of Self Control/Lack of Accountability?
I know that I am the best at everything here. No one should ever disrespect me because I'm the only one that can do things right.
What is False/Criminal Pride?
I like to only tell part of the truth. I refuse to listen
What is Concrete Thinking/Closed Channel?
I look honestly at how I behave; both good and bad.
What is Honesty?
Crossroads by
Who is BONE, THUGS, N HARMONY?
"Lancaster, why do you always put yoga on the gym schedule?? You know I'm not going to do it because I don't like it."
What is Lack of Initiative/Effort?
"Yeah, I would love to do crazy things with you and cause a ruckus. It sounds like a great idea!"
What is Suggestibility?