Attention & Listening
Approaching a Group
Making Friends/The Friendship Pyramid
Self-Esteem & Handling Teasing vs Bullying
Identifying Feelings and Appropriately Expressing them
100
Name 3 ways we show we are listening 
Quiet still body


Hands are still

Listen with ears

Look at speaker

Quiet mouth

100
Name the steps we use when approaching a group
Walk over to the group

Make eye contact and use a friendly voice to greet

Listen to what they are talking about and make an on topic comment or question. If you’re not sure you can ask. 

100
How do we make friends/get to know someone?
By asking questions and listening, finding similarities 
100
Define Friendly teasing and Mean teasing
Friendly teasing- jokes or statements made between friends or family members, everyone laughs and no one is hurt, based on things we know about each other


Mean teasing- joking that makes people mad or sad, hurtful words or physical bumps

100
Does everybody have the same feelings in all situations?
No. Different people feel differently in various situations . Something that makes you really angry maybe does not anger your friend as much.
200
Why is it important to show others we are listening to them?
It lets them know that we care about them/what they are saying
200
Why can approaching a group be tricky?
People don’t like to be interrupted

You may not know what they are talking about

You may feel shy or nervous 

200
List 3 examples of what it means to be a good friend
1) ask questions about each other

2) listen to each other

3) are nice to each other

4) try to understand each other’s feelings

5) care about each other

6) help each other solve problems or give advice

200
When does mean teasing turn into bullying?
When it happens over and over again
200
Tell us what level you are at/how that makes you feel in this situation and what you can do about it:


Your friend copies your answers on a test even though you said no, and then you get in trouble by the teacher.

Name level, name how it makes them feel, and name a way to calm self
300
Role play the incorrect way to show we are listening
Role play

Hands moving, ears off, eyes wandering, talking, legs moving 

300
How do you decide when is the right time to approach a group?
When there is a pause in conversation or they look happy and friendly, not in an intense conversation 
300
Name the 5 levels of The Friendship Pyramid
Friendly

Acquaintance

Possible Friendship

Evolving Friendship

Close/Best Friend

300
Define self-esteem 
The way we feel about ourselves
300
Tell us something that puts you at a level 5 and how it makes you feel
Name a level 5 situation 
400
Role play the appropriate way to listen to others
Role play hands still quiet body ears on eye contact mouth zipped
400
Role play the appropriate way to approach a group
Role play the steps listed 
400
Do we tend to have more people that fall in the higher level of the pyramid (best/close friend) or lower level (friendly/acquaintance)? And why?
Lower level

It is normal to have few people 1-2 in the upper level these are people we trust and share secrets with

400
Name 3 ways to boost or raise our self-esteem
Positive self-talk

Surround yourself with people who like you

Do something you’re good at

Respect others


400
Name something that puts you at a level 3, how you feel and what you can do about it
Name a Level 3 situation , how they feel and what they can do about it
500
Give an example of someone who is an acquaintance 
Example: A classmate who you see everyday but don’t talk to outside of class



500
Name 4 ways to respond to teasing or bullying
1) positive self talk

2) ignore/walk away

3) speak up for yourself. Ask them to stop

4) if none of these work, tell a teacher or parent

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