Avoid Violent Behaviors &
Resources for Help
Resources for Help
what is the definition of Violent Behavior
acting with or characterized by great physical force, so as to injure, damage, or destroy.
What Does Love Mean
Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”
“Love is a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.”
“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouths.”
Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it every day.
You really shouldn't say "I LOVE YOU” unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot.
People forget.
What are the Objectives
Identify major considerations examined when choosing contraceptive methods
List commonly used contraceptive methods
Explain how each contraceptive works
Evaluate contraceptive options
What are Health Consequences
Teen moms less likely to receive early and regular prenatal care than an older mother
Premature birth
Low birth weight
Premature/difficult labor
Anemia
High blood pressure
What are examples or types of violent behaviors?
Bullying
Hazing
Dating violence
Sexual assault
Family violence
Verbal abuse
What are all Healthy Relationships
Happiness
Trust
Love
Affection
Equality
Mutual respect
Friendship
Laughter
Common interests
Honesty
Support
Fair fights
Acceptance
Comfort
Kindness
Strong self-esteem
Humor / fun
Can be yourself
Still are independent people
Communicate well
What is Contraception?
Chemical, device, or action used to prevent pregnancy
Works in a variety of ways
NOT a method to reduce risk for STDs!
What are Legal Consequences
Legal age of consent (issue of statutory rape)
Questions about paternity
Child support
Child custody
What are Possible Causes for
Violence
Genetic predispositions
Social problems, such as poverty, discrimination, child abuse, lack of family values, drug and alcohol addictions
Cultural factors – e.g. violence portrayed in the media
Both Partners in a Healthy Relationship are
Treated with kindness and respect
Honest with each other
Like to spend time together
Take an interest in things that are important to each other
Respect one another’s emotional, physical, and sexual limits
Can speak honestly about their feeling
Which Contraceptive Method is Right?
Reflect :
Individual health risks
Implications of unplanned pregnancy
Risks for STDs
Convenience and comfort level
Type of relationship
Ease of use and cost
Religious or other philosophical
beliefs
Can be used by either male or female
Why should Teen girl Think about Reality Check
Only 41% of teenage mothers complete high school, making it less likely they will qualify for a well-paying job.
Teen moms are more likely to abuse/neglect their child
Nearly 80% of teen fathers of children born to teen mothers do not marry the mothers.
Teen fathers pay less than $800 child support for the lifetime of the child.
What are Causes of Violence
It is difficult to determine the strongest predictor and exclusive cause of violent behavior; however, like all learned behavior But it can be CHANGED.
What are response you can give when you end a relationship or a friendship
I've met someone else
If it's meant to be,it's meant to be
I Don't have feeling for you no more
We can still be friends
I have to find my self
I'm just really busy right now
I need space
What are some Considerations to think about
Effectiveness
Convenience
Cost
Reversibility
Risks (safety)
STD protection
What do yo need to do to take care of a baby
Things I would have to do if I had a baby:
Amount of time it would take:
Feed baby every 2-3 hours
25 minutes, at least 8 times a day
Make baby’s formula
20 minutes per day
Change diapers every time the baby is fed and when needed
5-20 minutes, 8-10 times per day
Give the baby a bath
30 minutes each day
Do the laundry
1 hour each day
Go grocery shopping
1 hour every Saturday
Play with baby
30 minutes, 4 times a day
Work part-time to help support the baby
4 hours every Saturday
Pay bills
1 hour every Saturday
What are all of Immediate Warning Signs of Violence
Pattern of anger or loss of temper
Frequent physical aggression
Significant vandalism or property damage
Increased use of drugs or alcohol
Detailed plans to commit acts of violence
Announcing threats or plans for hurting others
Carrying a weapon
How should yo break up
with Respect Because is better to.
Communicate about the break up in person.
It may be difficult and uncomfortable but respect each other enough to share your feelings in person.
Honesty is essential - don’t offer excuses or promises that you have no intention of keeping.
Immediate separation is important.
Don’t prolong the inevitable.
Give each other needed space.
(May require a new circle of friends, new route to class or school, or a change in social media habits).
Speak with respect to the person and about the person in future conversations.
Avoid gossip and sharing of hurtful information about others.
What are some Overview of Commonly Used Methods
Abstinence
Barrier Methods
Hormonal Methods
Other