Skills for Learning
What does it mean to be a respectful learner?
(various answers)
Focusing your attention and listening. Showing respect.
True or False
Empathy means that you don't care about how someone feels.
False
Rita is having strong feelings about taking her math test. She feels unprepared. What is another feeling she might be having?
Sad, scared, nervous, anxious (various answers)
True or False
Excluding someone from a game is fair and respectful.
False
True or False
Bystanders are those that see bullying and can do something or not about it.
True
What does positive self-talk mean?
Self-talk means talking to yourself in a quiet voice or in your head.
Tell me a tell where you have shown compassion.
various answers
What is one thing you can do to calm down?
belly breathe, use stop signal, count, drink water (various answers)
Take turns during recess
Name one way you can recognize bullying?
unfair, one-sided, consistent, out-numbered
Tell me one way to make a good plan.
The order makes sense, it's simple and you can do it
How can you tell how someone else is feeling?
By what they say or how they look (clues on their face or body language)
The thumb is your ___ part of the brain in the brain model.
Feeling
What does S.T.E.P. stand for?
say the problem
think of solutions
explore consequences
pick the best solution
What are the three R's of bullying?
Recognize, Refuse, Report
What are three ways to show assertiveness?
True of False
People can have different feelings about the same situation, and their feelings can change.
True
Draw a model of your brain when you have strong feelings and explain it to me.
Various drawings
This is an example of what kind of language?
"It's your fault for making me do that!"
Blaming
What is the difference between bullying and tattling?
Bullying is to report when someone or yourself when someone is being unfair and mean. Tattling is trying to get someone in trouble.
What are the three possible ways of speaking to someone when you need or want something?
Assertive, passive, and agressive
Thinking about other's perspectives helps you have ____ for them.
Which way is not a good way of managing disappointment?
a. belly breathing
b. positive self talk
c. count to ten
d. yelling at friends
d. yelling at friends
Negative ____ _____ means doing something you don't want to do.
peer pressure
Rita and her friends are excluding Eva from the game they are playing every day and tells her that she needs to find other friends. What is something Eva can do?
tell an adult, use assertive skills with Rita
(various answers)