Consent
What is the appropriate age of consent?
16 years of age
When you pretend something did not happen, when it really did. This is called?
Denial
When you only think about yourself. This type of thinking is known as?
Me, Me, Me
"It was her fault I touched her, did you see what she was wearing?" Is an example of?
Blaming
Name 2 building blocks of consent. Do not repeat any that have been said.
EX:
Respect
Permission to say "No"
"I only did it one time." This type of thinking is called?
Minimizing
"I did my homework, but my mom accidentally threw it out when she was cleaning." This is an example of?
Justifying or excuse making
The "I didn't have time" excuse
Individuals are able to feel the same way about each other and determine they are on the same page emotionally.
"I always am the one kicked out of class."
"I never get to go to the movies."
These are examples of what type of thinking?
Universals
When you think you know what is going on, but do not take the time to make sure. This is called?
Acting Helpless or saying, "I can't"
Name the building blocks that start with, "Both..."
Both know/understand what is going to happen.
Both say, "yes."
When you try and get others to feel sorry for you. This is called?
Victim Stance
"I am so good at football, I don't get hurt." This is an example of?
Magical Thinking or Super-Optimism
When you pretend you don't know the answer that other people need or want. This is called?
Avoidance or "I don't know"
Name all 10.
respect, honesty, affection, same level emotionally, equal intelligence, both know what's going to happen, both say, "yes," permission to say, "no," no alcohol or drugs, appropriate age
"I was so angry and not thinking clearly." Is an example of?
Name the three types of lying and explain each one.
Half-truths-hold back information
Lie of commission-flat out no truth to what you said
Lie of assent-faking it
When you don't think ahead about the consequences. This type of thinking is called?
Distant Elephants