Types of Boundaries
Type of boundary where the person has trouble letting someone getting too close, both physically and emotionally.
Rigid Boundaries
This type of communicator is soft spoken and allows others to take advantage of them.
Passive Communicator
This type of Love Language values undivided attention.
Quality time
"I can’t show my true my emotions and feelings or tell the person my honest opinion."
Unhealthy relationship
What school is Alexis graduating from?
The University of Arizona
This style of boundary jumps from Rigid to Porous and back again.
Spongy Boundaries
Communication style listens to the other person, seeks compromise but also stands up for themselves.
Assertive
This person's Love Language involve their receiving thoughtful and intentional gifts or tokens.
Receiving gifts
"I feel comfortable with being assertive."
Healthy Relationship
What does Alexis like to do for fun?
Sing and dance
Some one who has difficulty saying "No" has these types of Boundaries.
Porous Boundries
What type is this style
"Um, I am wondering if I can please take the quiz again. I don't want to be a burden but I have to pass this class."
Passive communication style
Doing the dishes, cleaning the bathroom, preparing a meal, or mopping are what demonstrate to you that someone cares.
"In my relationships we don't scream and yell at one another."
Healthy Relationships
What is Alexis's favorite color?
Pink
This person's boundaries show they are able to compromise and not always get exactly what they want.
Flexible or Healthy Boundires
"You never do what I say. I am so tired of you. You are stupid."
Aggressive communication style
Being physically present establishes that you are cared for.
Physical Touch
"I am lucky to be with ______, I will never find anyone else to love me."
Unhealthy Relationships
What type of dogs does she have?
Chihuahuas
What type of bounderies do you practice.
Likely all of them!
" I really want to listen to you but I am busy right now. How about I come back to you in 30 minutes and we will talk."
Assertive communication style.
Hearing "I love you", "I care about you", or "I'm proud of you" are powerful for you.
Word of Affirmation
"I am able to grieve the end of a relationship and move on in a healthy way."
Healthy Relationships
What is Alexis's favorite ice cream?
Rocky Road