Two Way Conversations
Trade information, listen to your friend, ask follow up questions, don't be repetitive and ask open ended questions
What are rules of a two way conversation?
What is steps for starting an individual conversation?
Tell them what you'll do differently, ask them what they want them to do, suggest what you want them to do, keep your cool if you can't solve the problem
What are some ways to solve the problem in an argument?
Be serious when you're FIRST getting to know someone, don't repeat jokes, avoid insult jokes and dirty jokes, think about whether it's the right time to tell jokes, pay attention to your humor feedback
What are some rules for appropriate humor?
"Good game."
What do you say at the end of a game?
Ask them questions, answer your own questions, find common interests, share the conversation, don't be an interviewer
What is trading information?
Keep your cool, look away, turn away, walk away
What are the steps for exiting a conversation when never accepted?
Keep their cool, listen to each other, explain their side, and find a solution to the problem
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=66lwX-2IUJ0&list=PLXChMXWLI_LIHk77ub7XgqZEE-fbcf8Cw&index=9
What are some ways Lilo and Nani could handle their argument appropriately?
What is an example of an appropriate joke?
Jessie, Hannah, and Alex are playing a game of Uno. Hannah lays down her last card and says, "I win! You two are really bad at Uno."
What is an example of bad sportsmanship?
Talking to each other, looking at each other, facing each other
What is showing interest in talking to someone?
Listen to the conversation, watch from a distance, use a prop, identify the topic, find a common interest, move closer, wait for a pause, mention the topic, assess interest, introduce yourself (if they're interseted).
What are the steps for starting a group conversation?
Kathy is upset with Susan after Susan did not invite her to her sleepover. Instead of loosing her cool, Kathy asks Susan why she didn't invite her. After listening to Susan, Kathy explains her side and Susan apologizes and invites Kathy to another sleepover.
What is an example for a good way to handle an argument?
Laugh and smile, compliment your joke or humor, ask you to tell another joke or start telling jokes themselves, say, "I'll have to remember that one."
What is some good humor feedback?
"Nice move!", "Nice try.", "Great shot!", "Good job!", giving a high five or thumbs up, clapping, giving a fist bump
What are some examples of praise to give during a game?
Favorite music, favorite sport, favorite video game, age, school, hobbies
What are conversation starters?
Keep your cool, look away, wait for a brief pause, give a brief cover story for leaving, walk away
What are the steps for exiting a conversation when initially accepted and the excluded?
By keeping her cool, listened to her mother, explained her side, and said sorry
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PVHPHI1q-7I&list=PLXChMXWLI_LIHk77ub7XgqZEE-fbcf8Cw&index=10
What ways could Jane have handled the argument better?
Not laughing at all, giving a courtesy laugh, laughing at you, laughing with you
What four reactions should you look for when paying attention to your humor feedback?
Bert, Micheal, and Jane are playing basketball in the gym. Micheal throws the ball and makes it into the basket! Bert starts clapping and Jane says, "Nice shot!"
What is an example of good sportsmanship?
Making eye contact, waiting your turn to speak, using good body boundaries, and nodding to the speaker
What is being a good listener?
Wait for a brief pause, give a specific cover story for leaving, say you'll see them later, say goodbye, walk away
What are the steps for exiting a conversation when fully accepted?
Keep your cool, listen to the other person, repeat what they said, explain your side, say you're sorry, try to solve the problem
What are the steps for handling arguments?
Knock, knock
Who’s there?
Europe
Europe who?
No, you’re a poo!
What is an example of an inappropriate joke?
Play by the rules, don't be a referee, don't be a coach, share and take turns, don't be competitive, help and show concern if someone is injured, don't be a sore loser
What are some rules for good sportsmanship?