Communication
Active, Passive, and Competitive
What are the three types of listening styles?
Permissive, Uninvolved, Authoritative, Authoritarian
What are the four types of parenting styles?
21-Day interactive tool for couples to learn more about each other and talk about memories together.
What is the Love Every Day app?
The kids are damaged, stepmothers are wicked, blended families are bad, love is easy, the past won't repeat itself.
What are some myths about blended families?
Green, Blue, Purple, Orange and Red
What is the color coding system in Outlook for types of sessions?
This technique literally allows both people to let the heat and intensity of a discussion cool down enough to where it can be addressed under more relaxed circumstances.
What is "take a chill" or the "cool off"?
Parent stops what they are doing, sits down at same level, face child and make eye contact, does not let phone or other children disrupt the conversation.
What is showing a child the parent is interested and willing to listen to them?
Emotional Support, Financial Support, Cooperation, Attitude
What are the four categories in the Relationship Inventory?
Take it slow, look at the big picture, you don't have to be best friends, try not to compare.
What are some tips for children in a blended family?
C, NS, RS, and X
What are ways to show the result of the session: C -Complete, NS - No Show, RS - Rescheduled, X - Cancelled?
Direct vs. Indirect, Collaborative vs. Goal-Oriented, Hot vs. Cold
What are the different types of couples communication styles?
Choose your battles and make compromises when needed. Make sure child knows they can always discuss any issue.
What are ways to create trust with a child?
Two minute parting in the morning, 20 minute stress-reducing talk at the end of each workday, five minutes each day showing appreciation, five minutes a day showing affection, two hour date once a week.
What is the Magic Five Hours by John Gottman that can help keep a marriage on track?
Slow and steady wins the race, you are not replacing anyone, don't set unrealistic expectations.
What are some tips for stepparents in a blended family?
Seven digit number that appears on the Location line in outlook appointment, entered by BHR consultant.
What is the case number for the participant?
Use these kinds of statements when sharing a concern with another without it sounding like an attack.
What are "I" statements?
Natural consequences, Logical consequences, Positive time outs.
What are positive discipline techniques?
1. Put your relationship first, 2. Make uninterrupted time to spend together, 3. Build a two-person team, 4. Communicate early and often, through words and actions, 5. Minimize stress, 6. Compromise, 7. Set reasonable expectations, 8. Set goals /set up for challenges, 9. Get expert advice, 10. Count your blessings.
What are ways a couple can Weather Any Storm?
Custody and co-parenting, health care choices, end-of-life issues, estate planning.
What are some legal issues related to blended families?
Open appointment box in Outlook, click on Options, click on Recurrence, pick start and end times, day(s) of the week, and range of recurrence. Click OK.
What is how to create a recurring event in Outlook?
Preoccupation, cell phones, crying babies, hunger, fatigue.
What are distractions that keep people from actively hearing others?
Be a good role model, teach media literacy, help girls find their voice.
What are ways parents can help daughters build self-esteem?
Physical, Emotional, Intellectual
What are the three types of couples closeness?
Help everyone feel at home, create family traditions, do things together and apart.
Click on ... in VCita to open menu. Pick Send a Note, delete the note in the box and replace with one from BHR workflow.
What is how to send a follow-up note to remind participant they missed their session?