Bully, Bystander, Upstander
What would you do?
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Types of bullying
Reasons why someone would bully
100

You stand by and watch someone hurt another student, either with their words or actions, what are you?

Bystander 

100

You walk into the washroom and you hear someone crying, what do you do?

a) Do your business and get out

b) Ask if they are ok, and if you help them?

c) Walk out and get a teacher

b and c

100

Being honest, not cheating or stealing, keeping your promises, being loyal and standing by your values.  What character count is this?

Trustworthy

100

Someone continues to hurt another child using their body. What type of bullying is this?

Physical

100

People who want to be in control and be kind to others on their terms. What type of bullying is this?

Power

200

You keeping calling a kid in your class names.  They have asked you to stop every day, and you keep going what are you. 

Bully

200

You're hanging out with a group of friends and a student walks up to join in. One of your friends makes a rude comment to that student, so they leave. What do you do?

a)laugh

b)Go and find the student and ask if they are ok

c)Tell your friend that it's not nice to speak rudely about other people

B and C

200

Being courteous to others, dealing peacefully with anger, insults and disagreements, being accepting of differences, following the golden rule (treat others the way you want to be treated), being considerate of other peoples feelings. What character count is this?

Respectful

200

Someone continues to say mean and not true things, gossip, threaten and belittles someone

Verbal

200

To bully others to fit in with a clique even though it goes against their better judgment. These kids are more concerned about fitting in and being accepted then they are worried about the consequence of bullying. Other times kids will simply go along with the group. What type of bullying is this?

Peer Pressure

300

You hear about another student getting hurt after school for the 3rd day in a row.  What are you?

Bystander 

300

You walk up to a group of kids and they are telling stories about another students family. These stories are not nice and you know they are not true.  What do you do?

A) Tell them to stop and get a teacher

B) Join in the conversation knowing it will hurt the kids feelings

C) Tell the truth, defend the student.

A and C

300

Doing what you are suppose to be doing, trying your best, preserving (having a growth mind set), thinking before you ask (consider the consequence), being accountable for your words, actions, and attitudes. What character count is this?

Responsibility 

300

Using technology, texting and social media, threating, harassing and and name calling

Cyber

300

Kids may be targeted because they have special needs, singled out for their race, region, gender identity, and sexual ordinations. What type of bullying is this?


being preadjust 

400

One of your friends is being made fun in the bathroom when no teachers are around. Your friend tells you that this is happening ALL THE TIME, you tell the person to stop or you're telling the teacher. What are you?

Upstander

400

Online you notice a group of kids ganging up on a girl calling her mean names. This girl, doesn't have many friends. What do you do?

A) Join in

B) Don't say anything

C) Report and tell someone

C

400

Playing by the rules, taking turns and sharing. Being open minded, listening, not taking advantage of others. What character count is this?

Fairness

400

Treating people badly because of there racial or ethnic background. Saying bad things about a cultural background or calling and saying racist jokes.

Racial/Regligious

400

Some kids who have been victims of bullying look for ways to get back at or seek revenge. These kids are often referred to as bully victims and they also feel justified in their actions, because they too have been harassed. What type of bullying is this

Payback

500

You hear someone being called names every day out side. You have told the person to stop, but they keep going. You finally get a teacher and they talk to the student. What are you?

Upstander. 

500

While walking home from school you witness a physical fight, your friend tells you to record it with your phone, what do you do?

A) Not record it

B) Call the police

C) Find an adult for help


All of the above

500

Doing your part to make your home, school, and community better. Co-operate, being a good neighbor, making choices about protecting the safety and rights of others. Protecting the environment. What character count is this?

Citizenship

500

Rolling eyes, or turning away from someone, excluding others from the group, getting others to ignore or exclude, gossiping or spreading rumors, setting others up to look foolish, and damaging reputations and friendships.

Social bullying

500

Kids who are trying to climb the social ladder or gain some social power may resort to bullying to get attention. They might also bully others to take away the social status of another. What type of bullying is this called?

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