Physical
You and the person next to you both got an A on a test. Is it okay to give a high five?
Yes! If both people are okay with this.
Tell me one thing YOU can make a decision about
Anything that specifically impacts YOU (as long as it is safe or okay with adults in your life.)
You are feeling very sad and want to talk about it. Name one person you can talk to besides your parents.
Many answers
Tell me one thing it is okay to talk about at school
Homework, hobbies/interests, appropriate topics.
When is it okay to shake someone's hand?
Meeting someone, greeting someone, as long as everyone is comfortable with it.
There’s a new kid in your class. You don’t know him at all, but decide to introduce yourself and ask him a little about himself. Is this ok?
Yes! Asking curious questions can help you get to know him.
Tell me one thing it is okay to talk about with your friends
Slightly more personal things than classmates, it's okay to go deeper with friends that you trust.
You see a stranger fall of their bike and start crying. Is it okay to give them a hug?
Probably not. You don't know them. You could ask if they are okay!
Your mom makes spaghetti for dinner, but you wanted pizza. Who gets to decide what the FAMILY eats?
Mom, because she is cooking. Maybe you could make something different for yourself!
You’re at a friend’s house and have to go to the bathroom. At your house you leave the door open sometimes. Can you leave the door open here?
No. This is something private and shouldn't be seen by someone outside of your family.
Tell me one thing it is okay to talk about at home
Many answers.
What is a comfort zone?
You are at home, just relaxing with your family, when your brother starts bugging you. You can feel your frustration getting bigger and think that you need to take a break. Who decides whether you take a break? Why?
You, as long as it is safe. Others might ask/encourage you to take a break.
During class, the teacher passes back your spelling tests. You got every answer right! You want to show every person in the class your test. Is this ok? Why?
No. It may make others feel bad, seem like you are bragging, or take too much time away from the class.
Tell me something it is okay to talk about with a stranger
Greeting or saying hi.