Anxiety, Anger, and Emotional Intelligence
__________ is defined as a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease, typically about an imminent event or something with an uncertain outcome.
What is anxiety
There are two types of boundaries. ___________ and ____________.
What are physical and emotional
Empathy is defined as the ability to ___________
and ___________ the feelings of another.
What is understand and share
Power is defined as the capacity or ability to __________ or _____________ the behavior of others or the course of events.
What is direct or influence.
Leading in times of crisis and change requires emotional intelligence, developed character, spiritual formation, and _______-________ ____________.
What is skill based competencies.
Ego is defined as this.
What is a person's sense of self-worth or self-importance.
Paul is his Roman name. What is his Jewish name?
Who is Saul.
Anxiety and anger are ____________ responses to a perceived threat and are designed to protect us.
What is normal
Developing and maintaining good boundaries is how we demonstrate __________ for self and others.
What is love
Before we can demonstrate empathy we must _________-___________ our anxiety and anger.
What is self-regulate
Stewarding our influence well requires us to ___________ we have power.
What is acknowledge
Carey Nieuwhof states "You need to work twice as hard on your ___________ as you do on your competency."
What is character
These three make up the dark triad of personalities.
What is Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy.
In 1st Corinthians 13 the Apostle Paul says that you can have many things, but without this, you have nothing.
What is love.
A stress reaction activates our __________, __________, ____________, and _____________ response.
What is fight, flight, freeze, and faint
Burnout is less likely about workload and more likely to be the result of getting ___________ in other people's problems.
What is stuck
Empathy can help you identify the ________ of others.
What are needs
Managing a friend or family member is an example of a ________ ________
What is dual role
The seven Biblical virtues in 1 Corinthians 13: 1-13 are these.
What is faith, hope, love, courage, wisdom, justice, and self-control.
Ture or false
An honest assessment of ones gifts is prideful.
What is false
The apostle Paul was the youngest person elected to sit on this Jewish counsel.
What is Sanhedrin.
While praying to his heavenly father Jesus experienced anxiety in this location.
What is the Garden of Gethsemane
Unhealthy triangles ___________ the problem.
What is perpetuate
Bonus: 200
Name 1 unhealthy emotional triangle and 1 healthy emotional triangle
Empathy alone will never resolve toxic behaviors. For that we must implement ______________ and accountability.
What is responsibility.
Managing dual roles requires us to have honest conversations up front about this.
What are power dynamics
Character development begins with this.
What is self-examination.
Pride is driven by fear and humility is motivated by _________
What is love
The apostles Paul's trade skill was this? Hint: it was how he met Priscilla and Aquila.
What is tent maker.
This is the ability to be meaningfully connected while not being consumed by the anxiety of the team.
What is self-differentiation
Healthy triangles put ________________ back on the person it belongs to.
What is responsibility
DAILY DOUBLE!!! (Worth 1,000)
This is being self-taught and self-directed, taking responsibility for one's own growth process.
What is autodidactic
When managing dual relationships, the person with the most power is responsible for ____________ the ____________.
What is managing the boundaries
Spiritual formation involves these four components.
What are Engagement, Knowledge, integration, and application.
When we lead with pride (rooted in fear) we get compliance from those we are leading. However, when we lead with humility (rooted in love) we get ___________.
What is cooperation
The Apostle Paul and Barnabas fought and parted ways about taking this person on the 2nd missionary trip.
Who is John Mark
Bonus Points: 500
Why didn't Paul want to take him?