conversation
IF you smile and make eye contact this shows the other person that you are...
What is "interested" ?
(Also: approachable, friendly, etc.)
what do people do when they don't care for your conversation?
Roll their eyes
I never have anything interesting to say
What is All or Nothing Thinking?
It's the year of the next Solar eclipse in the United States.
What is 2044?
How do you maintain a conversation/
what is asking questions, giving information and sharing
It's a good habit when talking to someone to tell them this...
What is to pay them a compliment?
What kind of stance do people exhibit when they disagree with you?
Cross their arms across their chest
The doctor is going to tell me I have a fatal disease
What is Jumping to Conclusions (or mind-reading)?
It's the capital of Norway
What is Oslo?
How do you stick to the topic of conversation?
what is thinking about the topic while the person is talking, asking the person to repeat what they are saying and say something that pertains to the topic
If you want to spend more time with the person you're talking to, what should you do?
What is... Ask for a way to contact them again?
What is it called in the when people raise their voice?
Voice volume and pitch
My cholesterol is going to be sky-high
What is Fortune-telling?
This is the smallest country in the world
What is Vatican City?
Did you like the role plays? Why or why not?
What is....yes they taught me something
What is no...I got nothing out of them
How do you end a conversation?
what is Demostrate the need to finish, Excuse yourself. Notify the person you need to finish, describe your desire to talk again
What kind of body movements/ gestures can you do to make the person think you are interested in the conversation?
What is "nodding your head," leaning forward," ....others?
I got the answer right, but it was a lucky guess.
What is Disqualifying the Positive?
It's the national animal of Scotland
What's a Unicorn?
Rephrase " I should never get anxious!"
What is ...it is OK to be anxious, people get anxious. I can cope with it. I am not alone
How do you start a conversation?
choose a good time and place
introduce yourself
make a small talk
What are some facial expressions that would match how you are feeling? examples
what is raising your eybrows when suprised
smile when you are pleased
frown when you are upset
What if then I’m late for the important meeting? What if I get fired?
What is Catastrophizing?
This is what Petra likes to find at Goodwill
What are shoes?
Give an exaple of what pessissim and discouragement mean to you?
example: I am too unlikable! what's the point of trying?