Think it Vs. Say it
“You’re Ugly!!”
Think it. This is a rude comment.
Should or shouldn’t: Screaming
Shouldn’t
Should or shouldn’t: Taking space
Should. Good toleration strategy.
I’m feeling angry. How should I calm myself down?
*Take a walk
*Count to 10
…. What else can you do to calm yourself down?
Do we bully at Spotlight?
NOOO
“I love your drawing, you’re so talented.”
Say it. This is a positive comment.
Should or shouldn’t: Throw items
Shouldn’t
Should or shouldn’t: Choosing negative comments
Shouldn’t. Bad strategy. Making negative comments towards someone is not nice.
I’m feeling sad. What should I do?
*Talk to an adult
*Ask for a hug
… What else can you do when you’re sad?
Do we swear at Spotlight?
Nooo
“Ewwww. I cannot believe you like Roblox.”
Think it. This is a rude comment. Although you may not like Roblox, it’s okay for someone else to.
Should or shouldn’t: Make fun of someone‘s interests
Shouldn’t.
Who should you talk to if someone is bothering you, even when you ask them to ”Please stop.”
Talk to a trusted adult and let them know how you feel. Let out your feelings using words, not your body.
What are ways I can keep myself happy?
*Play with friends
*Draw
…. What else can you do to keep yourself happy?
Where do we keep our hands?
To ourselves
“Minecraft isn’t my favorite, I prefer Fortnite instead.”
Say it. This comment is neutral.
Bob doesn’t want to do lesson. He starts having a tantrum and using his hands to hurt others. What should he have done instead?
*Take a walk
*Talk to a trusted adult
….. What else could Bob have done
What is an example of a neutral topic that you could talk about with a non preferred person.
*Video Games
*TV Shows
… What else could you talk about?
Bob is throwing things and screaming at Rashely. What emotion could he be feeling?
Anger, sadness, Nervousness
When an adult gives you a direction, what should you do?
Follow the directions the first time they’re given
“Stop it!! You’re so annoying.”
Think It. This response is rude. Instead, you could say, “Hey, could you please stop doing that, that‘s annoying.”
Bill wants to do creativity, but his friend Tom doesn’t want to. Bill tells Tom we should do creativity first, and then play a game you like. Tom then agrees to do creativity. What type of toleration strategy is this?
Compromise. Tom talked to his friend and compromised with him.
How can we stay in control of our body?
*Take deep breaths
*Use A fidget
… What else could you do to keep your body in control?
Bill is jumping up and down and is laughing extremely loud. What emotion is he displaying?
Excitement, happiness. How can he calm his body down?
Bob is constantly talking while adults are giving directions. What expectation is he not following?
Don’t speak over others, respecting others, and be kind.