Thinking with Our Eyes
What should you do to let someone know you are thinking about him/her and listening to him/her.
Look at the person.
s treating people fairly and with mutual respect an Expected or Unexpected behavior?
Expected Behavior
This is all the social rules that isn’t directly taught to you but everyone seems to know.
Hidden Rules
Give a Flexible & Stuck response
I have been super grouchy all day, my mom looks at me and says “Looks like you got up on the wrong side of the bed this morning.”
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What size is the Problem? My Parents wont let me eat all my candy at once!
SMALL
Bonus points (100) if you explain WHY.
Thinking with our eyes also helps.... ( Think back to the powerpoint!)
figure out expected & unexpected behaviour.
We can zoom in on what people may be thinking & feeling.
Show people we are paying attention.
Think about the people in a situation/setting.
Figure out who someone is talking to.
Figure out what to say to another person.
According to Expected Behaviors, what should you keep to your self?
What is hands, feet, objects, and sometimes thoughts.
When do Hidden rules Change?
In different situations
John wants to be on the purple team, but they are full. He goes with the flow and joins the green team
flexible
What size is the Problem?
I AM LOST
BIG
Bonus points (100) if you explain WHY.
We think with our eyes and look for _______ that give us more information.
Clues or Information
What is our expected behavior in class
Be kind
listen
Be respectful
Follow instructions
.................
What is an example of a hidden rule in the community
....
Flexible Thinking is _________ Behavior
Expected
What size is the Problem? SOMEONE IS WEARING THE SAME COSTUME AS ME
SMALL
When we think with our eyes we are able to make _______ guesses. When we do not think with our eyes we make _______ guesses.
Smart guesses
Silly/wacky guesses
Saying "good game" even when you lose. Expected or unexpected?
EXPECTED
What is a hidden rule when working with a team?
Do your part
Listen
be Kind
be fair
ECT......
Stuck Thinking makes people feel _________.
Frustrated, upset, mad, angry, sad, disappointed....
What size is the Problem?
OUR PLANS CHNAGED!
SMALL - MEDIUM
Bonus points (100) if you explain WHY for both.
our eyes are like ______. They point to what someone is looking at or thinking about.
Arrows
Following the ________ Plan is Expected or Unexpected Behavior ?
Group Plan
Expected Behavior
What is a hidden rules at school that changes in a new situation?
Running in the gym ...
Yelling outside...
Give a Flexible & Stuck Response:
We have a substitute teacher at school one day who tells us our reading time will be after our quiz, we usually have it before our quiz.
....
What size is the Problem?
My house floods after a big storm.
BIG
Bonus points (100) if you explain WHY.