Getting Along with Others
When you are being ________, you are considering how others want to be treated, and you are treating them that way. Everyohe at our school deserves to be treated with _________.
Respectful/Respect
T or F Anger is a bad feeling, if you feel it something is wrong with you.
False Anger is a normal healthy response to some situtions, and it's a feeling we all experience. It is not anger that is good or bad - it is the choices we make when we are angry that can be good or bad. Everyone gets upset.
Name the first step in Problem Solving?
Say the problem without blame.
Ms. Julie asks her students to choose ________ over _________.
Safety over Kindness
Something said to make another person feel bad.
Put-Down
Define Empathy?
Feeling or understanding how someone else is feeling.
Name the first two steps in the calm down steps.
Say your Stop Signal
Name you Feelings
What is the second step in problem solving?
Think of Solutions that are safe and respectful.
What is the always ask first rule?
Always ask the person in charge before going somewhere, doing something, or accepting something from someone.
Defined as how you see something. Two people can look at the same thing and have a different ________________ and still respect eachother.
Perspective
There are three groups involved with bullying, what are they?
Victim/Target
Bully/Agressor
By-Standers
What are some tools for calming down:
Positive Self Talk
Counting
Deep Breathing
Others answers are acceptable.
What is the third step in problem solving
Explore Consequences
What are the three R's we reviewed for staying safe?
Recognize
Refuse
Report
Way of communicating in which a person is afraid to say anything. They feel like you don't have the right to say what you need or want, often described as shy or weak.
Passive Communication
Define Bullying
Hurtful/disrespectful behavior that is:
intentional
repeated
going one direction
For something to be a good calm down tool it needs to calm you down and what other rules?
No harm to self or other and no major damage to property.
What is the last step in problem solving.
Pick the Best Solution
What is an unsafe touch?
What is an unwanted touch?
Unsafe touches are touches that hurt like a punch.
Unwanted touchs make us feel uncomfortable.
Described as a way of communicating in which you are loud and demanding. Not respectful of other peoples personal space and often make others around you feel uncomfortable or even scared.
Aggressive Communication
What does Listening with Attention include:
Eyes on Speaker
Don't Blurt/Interupt
Thinking about Speaker's Words
Body under control
Ask questions to clarify
Paraphrase/Summarize what you heard
Describe what happens to your body when you experience strong emotions.
The emotional part of your brain (amygdala) takes oer the thinking part of the brain (prefrontal cortex).
Upset Stomach
Increased Heart Rate
Irregular Breathing
Tense Muscles
Skin Hot/Sweaty
What is defined as a problem when others your age try to get you to do someting that is not safe, not respectful, or could casue bad consequences.
Peer Pressure
What are the prviate body parts rulues?
NO ONE SHOULD EVER:
1. Touch yours
2. Ask to see yours
3. Make you look at theirs or anyone else's
AND never touch someones else's.
Demonstrate or describe communicating in an assertive way.
Stand up straight (head up, shoulders back)
Face the Person
Firm Voice
Respectful Words
Seriousish Face