School Zone
You talk while someone else is talking in class- Expected or Unexpected, what kind of thoughts would they have how would they feel
Unexpected
Annoyed thoughts
Feel frustrated or annoyed
You sit in a chair on your phone for a long period of time. Expected or unexpected; what kind of thoughts would the people have about you and how would they feel
Unexpected
Annoyed; Frustrated Thoughts
Feel mad; annoyed
You walk in the middle of the street. Expected or unexpected; what kind of thoughts would the people have about you and how would they feel
Unexpected
Annoyed Thoughts
Feel Uncomfortable; Scared
”Guess what? Johnny asked me on a date?”Who do you say this to
Who: friend
What kind of thoughts do people have of you when you use expected behaviors?
Neutral;Good; Happy; Proud Thoughts
You tell the teacher you need a break when someone is too loud in your classroom- Expected or Unexpected, what thoughts would your teacher have about you and how would they feel
Expected
Good Thoughts
Feel Comfortable proud
You arrive at work on time and start your job Expected or unexpected; what kind of thoughts would the people have about you and how would they feel
Expected
Good Thoughts
Feel proud and happy
You hold the door open for someone who is walking behind you.
Expected or unexpected; what kind of thoughts would the people have about you and how would they feel
Expected
Good Thoughts
Feel Happy
“My throat hurts and I don’t feel good” Who do you say this to and where would you tell that person?
Who: Nurse, Doctor
Where: School; doctor's office
What kind of thoughts do people have of you when you use unexpected behaviors?
Annoyed, Frustrated Thoughts
You scream and say shut up when someone is being too loud
Expected or unexpected? What thoughts would your teacher and classmates be having about you and how would they feel
Unexpected
Surprised, Annoyed, Scared thoughts
Feel uncomfortable
You are sick and called into work. Expected or unexpected; what kind of thoughts would the people have about you and how would they feel
Expected (that you called into work if you were sick)
Good/ Neutral Thoughts
Feel good (that you were responsible)
You scream your teacher’s name in the middle of Target to get their attention. Expected or unexpected; what kind of thoughts would the people have about you and how would they feel
Unexpected
Annoyed Thoughts
Feel Uncomfortable; annoyed
You are clapping and screaming “let’s go ATP!” Who do you say this to and where would you tell that person?
Who: The ATP team
Where: at a game; sporting event
How will people feel if you use expected behaviors?
Feel ok, good, happy
You walk through the doorway when two people were there talking
Expected or unexpected? what kind of thoughts would the people talking have about you and how would they feel
Unexpected
Annoyed Thoughts
Feeling uncomfortable
A new employee just started and you show them how to stock the shelves at work. Expected or unexpected; what kind of thoughts would the people have about you and how would they feel
Expected
Good Thoughts
Feel happy
You accidentally bump into someone and immediately say sorry. Expected or unexpected; what kind of thoughts would the people have about you and how would they feel
Expected (to immediately apologize)
Neutral Thoughts
Feel ok
"I won’t be here tomorrow because we are going on vacation".Who do you say this to and where would you tell that person?
Who: Teacher; Boss
Where: School; Work; Phone
How will people feel if you use unexpected behaviors?
Feel uncomfortable, annoyed, frustrated, mad
Your schedule changes and you are flexible with going to speech on a different day than normal
Expected or unexpected; what kind of thoughts would the people have about you and how would they feel
Expected
Good thoughts
Feel Good and proud
You talk to a friend the whole time at work and do not do any of your job duties Expected or unexpected; what kind of thoughts would the people have about you and how would they feel
Unexpected
Annoyed Thoughts
Feel frustrated
You run ahead of your class and don’t tell anyone where you are going in the grocery store Expected or unexpected; what kind of thoughts would the people have about you and how would they feel
Unexpected
Annoyed Thoughts
Feel uncomfortable; scared
Dude, I had so much fun at Family Fun Fest. Who do you say this to?
Who: Friend
Expected behaviors can change depending on what two things? (Hint they start with wh)
Who and Where you are at