Communication
What phrase helps you take responsibility for your feelings when addressing conflict?
“I-statements” (e.g. “I feel… when…”)
Discipline’s purpose isn’t punishment—it’s teaching. Which Latin root highlights this?
“Disciplina,” meaning teaching or learning.
What daily habit helps children feel loved and connected?
Quality one-on-one time or affirming words. (Derived from manual’s nurturing emphasis)
What is the first step in resolving family conflict?
Calmly identify the problem with respect and clarity.
In an “I-statement,” what must always follow “I feel”?
A specific emotion (e.g. sad, frustrated, worried).
What 3-word phrase captures what children must learn when rules are broken?
“Actions have consequences.”
Consistent routines help children feel what essential emotion?
Security. (From nurturing section in manual)
How can parents help kids see another person’s viewpoint during disagreements?
Encouraging empathy by asking, “How do you think they feel?”
Why are “you-statements” discouraged in family conversations?
They sound blaming and typically make listeners defensive.
What makes a parent “credible” when disciplining?
Following through on words—“doing what you say.”
When a parent admits a parenting mistake, what are they modeling?
Humility and accountability. (Manual principle)
What two things should be avoided when resolving conflict in order to maintain the Spirit in the home?
Anger and blaming. These drive away the Spirit and escalate conflict.
Name the three parts of an “I-statement” as taught for constructive dialogue.
“I feel… when… I would like…”
What type of consequence happens without parental action—like forgetting lunch?
Natural consequence.
According to the manual, what is one way a parent can build a child's confidence through nurturing?
By giving sincere praise focused on effort and character, not just outcomes.
What is the suggested pattern from the manual for resolving conflict based on gospel principles?
Calm discussion, identifying the problem, listening to each other, and seeking a solution together with love and prayer.
What kind of statements should you avoid in an “I-statement” to keep it effective?
Blame, criticism, judgments (e.g., “I feel you are selfish”).
According to church guidance, why should physical punishment be avoided?
It instills fear, can escalate to abuse, and doesn’t teach proper behavior.
What daily parenting practice does the manual compare to nourishing a plant?
Expressing love regularly through words and actions, such as hugs, smiles, or positive attention.
According to the manual, what role does family prayer play in resolving conflict?
It invites the Spirit, softens hearts, and helps family members approach each other with humility and love.