What is Dating Violence?
Dating violence is common or uncommon amongst teens
Common
True or False: Gaslighting is a form of intimate violence
True!
True/False: Boundaries protect our well-being and help us to determine what is not okay and what is okay in relationships.
TRUE!
Healthy versus Unhealthy! (Or Unhealthy versus Healthy!)
There are __ warning signs of teen dating violence. Hint: its a number 1-10!
10 Warning Signs!
Teen dating violence can take place in many forms, name one form
Answer options include: In person, Online/Virtually, Through Technology
Hitting, shoving, blocking the door, or breaking things is _____ abuse.
Physical
C! Boundaries can help us build safety and trust in our relationships!
The "doormat" style of communication is also known as...
Passive Communication!
Red Flags!
Teen dating violence is this type of violence
intimate partner violence (IPV)
Repeated, unwanted attention or contact that causes you fear for your safety is ____.
Stalking
There are ___ easy steps to help us set healthy boundaries. (hint: a number between 1-10)
Three!
Yells, insults, interrupts are examples of _____form of communication.
Aggressive!
If something feels "off" or unsafe, what should you do with these feelings?
Trust them!
These are your "gut" feelings!
Intimate partner violence is when someone...(hint: three possible answers)
Hurts you (other answers: controls, or disrespects you)
Abuse happens in a cycle, how many stages are in the cycle of abuse?
Four stages
True or False: You can't adjust a boundary if it is not effective...once a boundary is in place it cannot change.
FALSE!
Healthy communication is also known as____ communication.
Assertive Communication!
If someone doesn't respect your boundaries...
It is a big WARNING SIGN/RED FLAG!
Intimate partner violence includes patterns of ___, ____, and ____.
Abuse, power and control.
___ is the name of one of the stages of the cycle (hint: there are four options).
Tension Builds, Incident, Reconciliation/Forgiveness, and the Calm stage.
Before you set a boundary you need to ____ on your needs.
Reflect!
Assertive communication means to communicate ____, ____, and ____.
Assertive communication means to communicate clearly, directly, and honestly.
Remember ___ is never your fault and you do not have to experience it ___!
Remember abuse is never your fault and you do not have to experience it alone!