Holiday Conversations
What’s one way to say “Merry Christmas” politely?
“Merry Christmas, I hope you have a wonderful holiday!”
Name one feeling people often have at Christmas.
Joy
What’s the first step if two kids want the same toy?
Stay calm and talk about sharing or taking turns.
What makes someone a good holiday friend?
Being kind, supportive, and including others.
Name one coping skill for holiday stress.
Taking a walk outside.
Name a question to ask about someone’s holiday plans.
Do you have any special plans for the holidays?
What does it mean to feel “overwhelmed” during the holidays?
Feeling stressed because there’s too much happening at once.
Name one way to compromise when sharing holiday treats
Split the treat evenly or let each person choose one.
What’s one way to show respect for different traditions?
Listen and ask questions without judging.
What’s one way to build confidence at a party?
Smile and introduce yourself to someone new.
How can you join a group talking about Christmas movies?
Listen first, then say: “I love that movie too — my favorite part is…”
Show with your face what “excited” looks like.
Big smile, wide eyes, raised eyebrows.
What should you do if you don’t like a gift?
Say “thank you” politely and appreciate the thought.
How can you say “no” politely to an invitation?
“Thank you for inviting me, but I can’t make it this time.”
How can deep breathing help before singing carols?
It relaxes your body and helps you feel calm.
What’s a polite way to thank someone for a gift?
Thank you so much, this means a lot to me!
How can you tell if someone feels left out at a party?
They may sit alone, avoid eye contact, or look sad.
How can you calm down before solving a holiday conflict?
Take deep breaths or count to ten.
Why are boundaries important at family gatherings?
They help everyone feel respected and comfortable.
What’s a positive affirmation you can say to yourself?
“I am confident and I belong here.”
Give an example of ending a holiday conversation kindly.
“It was great talking with you — enjoy the rest of your holiday!"
What’s one healthy way to express holiday stress?
Talking to a friend or taking a break to relax.
Give an example of solving a holiday problem together as a team.
Working together to decorate the tree so everyone’s ideas are included.
Give an example of a healthy holiday boundary.
Choosing to spend quiet time alone when you need a break.
Give an example of turning a negative holiday thought into a positive one.
Instead of “I’m nervous about meeting new people,” say “This is a chance to make new friends.”