In a competitive transaction, Should you open?
When in doubt, don't. But OK if you have good information and are well prepared.
Define the Scarcity effect
Human tendency to want things more urgently when we think the supply is running out
Way to combat a "nibbler"
Hold something back to give away at the end
Does the other side have anything to lose if it reneges on its promise?
Describe a social ritual
Accommodation or fair compromise
Goal of a deadline
to create the sense that time is running out on an opportunity
human desire to avoid admitting failure or accepting a loss when we have invested heavily in a prior course of action or decision
2. It is simple and easy to understand
A common way to enhance commitment to improve accountability
memorialize an agreement in writing
How did Barshefsky accelerate the decision of deal with the Chinese officials in the second round of negotiation in China
Barshefsky had the U.S.'s negotiation teams luggage sent to the Beijing airport and called her Chinese counterpart at 3:00 am to say that the Americans were leaving the following day. To leave the door open, she requested they meet in the early morning, to try to come to a consensus one last time.
How to respond when you hear the party has "other offers"
"I would love a chance to respond to the competition" or "Can you show me your other offer"
What to do when you sense you are becoming overly invested in a deal
Golden rule of negotiation
The goal of all negotiations is to secure a commitment, not merely an agreement
Name the four degrees of commitment
1. social ritual
2. public announcement
3. Accountability
4. Simultaneous exchange
Balanced Concerns
Name the three tactics to trigger scarcity
Competition, Deadlines, Walkouts
What is a nibble?
Two important situations where splitting is a bad idea
1. when the midpoint being suggested is genuinely fair to your side
2. When a lot money or an important principle is on the line and relationships matter
What degree of a commitment would a car or home sale be?
Simultaneous exchange