"Think It or Say It"
Magic Manners
Being a Fantastic Friend
Super Listening Skills
Reading the Room (Feelings)
100

Your friend gets a short haircut and you think it looks silly.  Do you Think It or Say It?

Think It! Saying it out loud could hurt your friend's feelings.

100

True or False: It is polite to chew your food with your mouth wide open so your friends can see it.

False. Keep your mouth closed while chewing.

100

If a classmate is crying because they miss their Mom/Dad/Grandma/Grandpa/Aunt/Uncle, what is a kind thing you can say to comfort them?

"It's okay, I can sit with you," or "Do you want to draw a picture together?"

100

When your teacher or a friend is talking to you, where should your eyes be looking?

Looking at the person who is speaking (making eye contact).

100

If a friend has their head down on their desk and their shoulders are slumping, how might they be feeling?

Sad, tired, or upset.

200

You want to play blocks with two classmates, but you are sitting alone.  Do you Think It or Say It?

Say It!  You can use your words to ask, "Can I play with you?"

200

What should you say if you want someone to pass you your water bottle at the lunch table?

"PLEASE" can you pass me my water bottle.
200

True or False: Being a good friend means you always have to play the exact game you want to play.

False. Good friends take turns choosing games.

200

If you didn't hear or understand what your teacher said, what should you do?

Raise your hand and say, "Could you please repeat that?"

200

What does it mean when someone’s eyebrows are pulled together, their lips are pressed tight, and their arms are crossed?

They are likely feeling angry or frustrated.

300

A classmate offers you a snack, but it looks yucky to you.  Do you Think It or Say It?

Think It!  Instead of saying "That looks gross," you can just say, "No thank you."

300

If you accidentally bump into a classmate in the hallway, what is the magical phrase to say?

"Excuse me" or "I'm sorry."

300

What should you do if your friend is using the slide and you really want a turn?

Ask politely, "Can I have a turn when you are finished?" and wait patiently.

300

When a friend finishes telling you about their weekend, what is a great way to show you actually listened?

Ask them a question about their story (like, "Did you have fun?").

300

If your friend is smiling and laughing, are they having a good time or a bad time?

A good time! 

400

Your friend drops their drawing on the floor and looks sad.  Do you Think It or Say It?

Say It!  Saying "Don't worry, I can help you pick it up!" will make them feel better.

400

When someone gives you a high-five or a compliment, what is the best thing to say back?

"Thank you!"

400

True or False: A fantastic friend celebrates and cheers when their classmate wins a game, even if they lost.

TRUE

400

True or False: You can be a super listener even if your mouth is moving and you are talking over your teacher.

False. Your mouth should be quiet while others speak.


400

If you walk into the classroom and everyone is whispering and reading quietly, what should your voice sound like?

A soft, quiet whisper voice.

500

Your teacher is talking, and you suddenly remember a funny story about your dog.  Do you Think It or Say It?

Think it!  Keep the thought in your brain until the teacher is done talking.

500

True or False: It is excellent manners to wait your turn in the lunch line without pushing other students.

TRUE

500

If you see a friend struggling to carry their lunchbox, water bottle and lunch tray, how can you help them?

Ask, "Can I help and hold something for you?"

500

True or False: If you have an awesome idea while someone else is talking, you should blurt it out immediately.

False. Wait until they finish talking, or raise your hand.

500

If a classmate has a big frown, their chin is shaking, and their eyes look watery, what are they about to do?

Cry (they are very sad).

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