being fair and generous to others when competing
sportsmanship
our body’s response to pressures from a situation or a life event
stress
intentional, unwanted, aggressive behavior that involves a real or perceived power imbalance and is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated
Bullying
A classmate smiles and waves at you. How do you think the classmate is feeling?
Happy
healthy or unhealthy friendship: Jake and Luke don’t always have the same interests, so they often take turns deciding what to do. They both listen to each other and help each other out when they need it. Sometimes they get annoyed with each other and aren’t respectful, but they both end up apologizing.
Healthy
experienced when we look forward to something happening in a certain way or at a certain time and it doesn’t happen the way we had wanted or expected.
Disappointment
What is a social filter?
Helps us say words that have good thoughts about us, keeps unkind thoughts in our head
Give an example of good sportsmanship
Win without bragging
Lose without complaining or making excuses
Treat opponents with respect
Follow rules of the game
Avoid arguments
Share responsibilities for the team
Play fair
Give encouragement to teammates
End the game smoothly
how does your body feel when you are stressed?
Dizziness
General aches and pains.
Grinding teeth, clenched jaw.
Headaches.
Stomachache
Increase in or loss of appetite.
Tight.
Problems sleeping.
Racing heart.
Cold and sweaty palms.
Tiredness, exhaustion.
Trembling/shaking.
a misunderstanding or disagreement that causes an emotional reaction between two or more connected people who need or want something from one another
conflict
You notice a friend crying with their head down but you're not sure why. What do you do?
Ask them if they are ok, tell them you are here for them
What is a topic you can talk about with a friend?
answers vary
What can you do when you feel disappointed?
talk to someone, relaxation techniques, positive self talk
Say it or think it: Insults
Think it
Give an example of bad sportsmansihp
Sore loser
Arguing with other players
Throwing the ball at other player
Cheating
Refusing accept an apology
Refusing to apologize
Yelling profanities at others
Throwing controllers/objects
Kicking or punching others
What is something that stresses you out?
school, family, friendships
Bullying or conflict: Everyday in class, George calls Troy a loser. Troy has asked him to stop, but George keeps doing it. Whenever Troy walks by George, George tries to trip Troy
Bullying
Jordan smiles when she hears her gym class will be doing basketball. What might she be thinking?
He likes to do basketball in gym
Acquaintance, casual friend, or close friend: Someone you know very well and trust, and you put effort into making time for one another
close friend
Expected behavior or unexpected behavior: You lose in a video game and start yelling at your classmates
Unexpected
Say it or think it: Helpful comments
say it
Good or bad sportsmanship: Brad and Rick are playing basketball in gym, Brad misses a shot in basketball and Rick tells him that he is horrible at basketball
bad sportsmanship
What is a coping strategy when you are stressed?
Listen to music
Draw
Write
Stress Ball
Quiet Corner
Progressive Muscle Relaxation
Bullying or conflict: Roy is playing soccer in gym class. He misses the winning goal. Fred, his teammate tells Roy that he is mad at him for not scoring the goal.
Conflict
You are talking during a lesson and the teacher stops and stares at you. What might the teacher be thinking?
The teacher wants you to stop talking
Acquaintance, casual friend, or close friend: Someone you know, but may speak occasionally or may speak with infrequently
Casual friend
Expected behavior or unexpected behavior: You got 2 points taken off your check in check out sheet. You start cursing at the teacher
unexpected
Say it or think it: You have big ears
Think it
Good or bad sportsmanship: Justin and Pat were playing against each other in soccer. Justin's team wins the soccer game. Pat tells him "good game"
Good Sportsmanship
Freeze
Give an example of cyberbullying
answers vary
Alejandro knocks over a game board when he loses. What might he be thinking?
He doesn't like to lose
Acquaintance, casual friend, or close friend: Someone you may have met and know slightly, but not well.
Aquaintance
Expected behavior or unexpected behavior: You found out the internet is down and can't cash out for the computer. You decide to go visit a friend instead
Expected
What is wrong with this conversation?
NIck: Wow you almost got the highest score on PacMan! How did you do that?
Matt: Yeah, my brother taught me strategies to play it
NIck: Do you think your brother could teach me?
Matt: No, I don't think he has the time. Besides, You're not really good at video games so my brother wouldn't want to teach you.
Matt said Nick isn't good at video games, so it could hurt Nick's feelings, Matt should not have said that