Bullying
You are out at recess playing on the swings. Brenda is angry that you won’t let her use the swing. Brenda says that she does not want to be your friend, so you stick your tongue out at her.
Is this bullying or conflict?
Conflict
1. listening
2. thinking about other's feelings
3. be respectful
What is an upstander?
Someone who sees bullying and speaks up. They interrupt the situation and stand up for the person being bullied.
You see a student being teased and called names by a group of kids at school. The student looks sad and uncomfortable. What is the best way you can help?
A) Laugh along with the bullies
B) Go up to the student and ask if they're okay
C) Ignore the situation
D) Tell the bullies that it’s funny and they should do it more.
B) Go up to the student and ask if they're okay
A friend is upset because they had an argument with their sibling. How can you help them feel better?
A) Tell them to stop being upset and move on.
B) Give them a hug and listen to what happened.
C) Tell them that their sibling is wrong and they should fight back.
B) Give them a hug and listen to what happened.
What kind of statement is this? "I feel frustrated, when you tell me what to do. Please ask nicely instead."
"I" message
Robby is kicking and pushing Lily on the bus. Robby keeps doing it even when Lily cries and tells him to stop. Is this a conflict or bullying?
Bullying
You see someone sitting alone in the cafeteria looking sad. What is the best way to show kindness?
A) Walk up to them and invite them to join you and your friends.
B) Ignore them and continue with your lunch.
C) Laugh at them
A) Walk up to them and invite them to join you and your friends.
When do I need to tell the teacher? (3 situations)
Someone is hurt or sick
There is danger
Someone is being bullied
What does B.O.O.O. stand for?
Being Mean
On Purpose
Over and Over
One Sided
You feel really upset because you didn't do well on a test & your friend keeps teasing you. How should you respond?
A) Ignore your friend and keep your feelings to yourself.
B) Yell at your friend to make them stop.
C) Talk to your friend & let them know how their teasing makes you feel.
C) Talk to your friend & let them know how their teasing makes you feel.
Create an "I" statement for this situation.
You are outside at recess and see your classmates playing soccer. You really want to join so you go over and ask if you can play. One of your classmates laughs and says, "No!you're bad at soccer, Go away!"
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