Social Stars!
Is it okay or weird to raise your hand to ask something in class? Why?
Okay – That’s the right way to ask questions in class.
What does “personal space” mean?
The space around our body that we like to keep safe from others.
What should you say when someone gives you a compliment?
"Thank you!"
Why should we think/care about how other people feel?
So we can be kind and not hurt others' feelings.
What’s a way of getting attention that might be annoying to others?
Repeating yourself over and over again, calling out, or interrupting others in the middle of their talk.
You see your teacher at a restaurant and yell “Hi!” from far away. Is that okay or weird? What could you do instead?
Weird – Yelling at someone in a restaurant can feel awkward. A small wave or smile is better.
If someone is standing too close to you, what can you say?
Say: "Please give me space" or "Can you back up a little?"
What are some nice things you can say to start a friendly talk?
“I like your shoes,” “You’re nice,” or “You’re good at drawing.”
What does “putting yourself in someone else’s shoes” mean?
It means thinking about how someone else feels.
What’s a polite way to get someone’s attention?
Raise your hand or say “excuse me.”
You ask your teacher for help while they’re talking on the phone. Okay or weird? Why?
Weird – The teacher is busy. It’s better to wait and ask later.
Why is personal space important when making new friends?
It helps people feel safe and happy when making friends.
If someone says “I like your backpack,” what can you say back to help the talk keep going?
“Thanks! My mom got it for me.” or “I’ve had it since 3rd grade.”
If someone looks sad but you feel happy, what can you do to be kind?
Ask if they’re okay and/or say something kind.
When you want to talk, but someone else is still talking, what should you do?
Waiting for a pause or quiet time before talking.
You walk to your teacher’s house and knock on the door to ask a question. Is that okay or weird? What should you do instead?
Weird – Going to someone’s house without being invited is not okay. Ask an adult at home instead.
How can you tell if someone wants more space from you? What does their body show?
They may step away, turn their body, or look upset.
After someone shares something interesting, what can you do to keep the talk going?
Share something interesting or nice back.
A classmate gets in trouble and you laugh. Are you "putting yourself in their shoes"? What should you do instead?
No – Laughing isn’t kind. You should stay quiet or imagine how you’d feel.
How can bothering others for attention hurt your friendships or how people feel about you?
It can annoy people and hurt your friendships.
Why should we think about where we are (like school or park) before we say or do something?
Because what works in school might not be okay outside of school. We have to think about where we are and what’s respectful.
What should you do if you ask someone to give you space and they don’t listen?
Tell a teacher or trusted adult to help you.
Why is it good to take turns talking when you’re being friendly with someone?
Taking turns helps everyone feel heard and included.
What is a word that means “putting yourself in someone else’s shoes”?
Empathy (caring about how others feel).
Why do people sometimes try really hard to get attention from others?
They want to feel seen, liked, or included.