Conflict with Friends
What is a conflict?
A problem with at least two sides
What does respect mean?
To care about and value someone or something
What should a listener ask the speaker to be sure they understand what they are saying?
Questions
What are two healthy ways to manage anger?
Deep breaths, count to 10, talk to an adult
What is the first thing you need to do when you have a decision to make?
Stop
Are lying and cheating healthy or unhealthy qualities in a friend?
Unhealthy
Allen called his teacher the wrong name. How can he show respect?
Admit his mistake and apologize
An I-message always starts with two words. What are they?
I feel
Terrified, nervous, confused, startled. These are examples of what kind of feeling?
Scared
What is the first step to reaching a goal?
Name it
What does it mean to cooperate?
Work together to solve a problem
Susan didn't do well on her math test, and she is being hard on herself. How can she show respect for herself?
Say something positive. (Next time I will study more and do better!)
What does it mean to be an active listener?
It means you are paying attention to what the speaker is saying
Lucy has been spreading lies about Ruby. Ruby's friend said "Don't believe her. Nobody else feels like that." What response strategy is the friend using?
Support the target
Name a goal you can reach within one week.
I will do my homework each day
You have an hour to play. You want to play inside, your friend wants to play outside. How can you compromise?
Play 30 minutes inside and 30 minutes outside
Diego was having a bad day. At recess, his friend, sat down, leaned in, and made eye contact while Diego talked. What behavior did the friend show?
Active listening
What are three techniques of a good speaker?
Speak up, speak clearly, speak slowly
When the teacher isn't looking, Harry punches Leroy in the arm. Leroy says, "You need to stop hitting me." What response strategy is this?
Say "Stop"
Your goal is to read 30 minutes when you get home from school. What are two steps you need to take to reach that goal?
Choose a book, find a quiet place to read, set a timer for 30 minutes
Pearl's grandmother took her and her friend Jules for ice cream. Jules dropped her ice cream. Pearl wouldn't share her ice cream with Jules. What unhealthy quality is Pearl showing?
Selfishness
What is the How to Listen Cure?
Look the speaker in the eye. Lean in, pizza pie! Ask a question to be sure. It's the how to listen cure!
What does it mean to reflect on a decision?
Think about the decision and ask "How did it go?"
Every morning on the bus, Oliver makes Evie give him her snack. Evie tells the bus driver, "Oliver is taking my stuff. I need your help to stop it." What response strategy is this?
Report it
What is a consequence?
The result of an action you take