Body Language
If someone has crossed arms and is looking away, they might be feeling this.
What is angry or closed off?
This is when you ask for help when something is too hard.
What is self-advocacy?
Saying “I want to play too” instead of waiting silently is using this type of language.
What is direct language?
You learn someone’s name and favorite color by doing this.
What is asking questions or getting to know them?
Saying “Hi” and asking “How are you?” is an example of this.
What is starting a conversation or a greeting?
A person who is smiling, nodding, and making eye contact is showing this emotion.
What is interested or happy?
Saying “Can I have a turn now?” is an example of this.
What is standing up for yourself or advocating politely?
Saying “I’m cold” and hoping someone will close the window is an example of this.
What is indirect language?
Talking about a friend's favorite sport shows you remembered this.
What is their interests or background?
You do this when you take turns talking and listening.
What is having a conversation or taking turns?
If someone is tapping their foot or checking the clock, they might feel this way.
What is impatient or bored?
If you're in a loud room and can’t hear, you might do this.
What is ask to move or ask someone to speak louder?
Saying “Can you please stop?” is more clear than sighing and moving away. This makes it more...
What is effective or respectful?
If someone just moved to a new school, you might avoid joking about this.
What is their old school or missing friends?
If someone says, “I love soccer,” you could do this to keep the conversation going.
What is ask a question or say something about soccer?
This is when someone’s face doesn’t match their words—for example, saying “I’m fine” while frowning.
What is mixed signals or confusing body language?
Telling a teacher you didn’t understand the directions shows this strength.
What is being brave or self-aware?
People may not know how to help you if you use this kind of language.
What is indirect language?
This helps you show others that you care and want to connect.
What is remembering what’s important to them or being thoughtful?
Looking at someone and nodding while they talk shows this.
What is active listening or being engaged?
Noticing someone’s tone of voice and body language at the same time is an example of this skill.
What is reading nonverbal cues or social awareness?
This kind of voice is firm but respectful—not yelling or whispering.
What is an assertive voice?
This type of language gets your needs met faster and reduces misunderstandings.
What is direct language?
If your friend always brings a Marvel backpack, you might ask about this.
What is their favorite Marvel character or hobby?
Changing the topic too fast or talking only about yourself can make a conversation feel like this.
What is one-sided or not a real conversation?