Past & Origin
How would I describe my mom and dad growing up?
What is my dad -- an alcoholic/drug addict and my mom -- a self-deprecating narcissist and money spender?
What's my love language?
What is Quality Time?
When/Where do I read my scriptures?
What is on the subway train, on my way to work/church.
What's my biggest goal right now?
What is getting my album on streaming platforms (or being signed to a music label)?
What is her favorite musical? (bonus points +5 if you can explain why)
What is Phantom of the opera?
Because Poppi played it for me in the car when I was 12. Fell in love with it because of his passion and love for the music. (He was a great story teller)
What are two things I don't accept in a relationship because of how I was raised?
What is cheating and abuse (verbal, physical, mental, etc)
How do I like to express love generally? (Think love languages)
What is gift giving? (I'll also take words of affirmation with a points doc of -10)
What compliment makes me melt the most?
What is you're so funny?
What're my deepest fears about the future?
What is getting divorced and ruining my kids? (Or never reaching for my dreams)
What's my favorite way to unwind after a long day?
What is watching TV (or talking with friends)?
When I'm upset, what's the best way to comfort me?
What is physical touch and visualization tactics?
What's something I wish you would do more often?
What is sending more photos of myself and random daily life updates?
What scent instantly calms me?
What is Eucalyptus, peppermint, or pine tree?
What's my definition of "home"?
What is safety?
What food do I like to eat all year round?
A) Pecan Pie
B) Dill Pickles
C) Butternut Squash
D) Buckeyes
What is C) Butternut Squash?
What is the worst thing someone has ever said to me in a relationship?
What is "I don't know if I'd be attracted to you if I saw you naked on our wedding night"?
What tends to hurt me most in arguments?
What is attacks on my character?
What part of me is double-jointed?
My thumbs
What is one thing I want to work on in our relationship?
What is being more open to correction?
What was the biggest lesson I learned from my mission?
What is exploring different communication styles and overcoming past trauma?
What is the worst thing that a friend has ever done to me?
What is molesting?
What's one habit of mine that feels "so me"?
What is writing down ideas, and using them for my book or turning them into songs?
What's something I do when I'm stressed?
What is breathing exercises and prayer?
What do I imagine our future looks like?
What is you and me, three kids, living somewhere that accommodates both of our careers -- like upstate New York or California (cuz it's warm... and yes, I know you said you don't like it there, but it's a possibility) -- you saving the world, and I'm healing the world?
Who influenced my values most growing up?
Who is my young woman's leader, Sister Starley?