Definitions, Mini Posters, & More
The 3 R's to help stop bullying
What are Recognize, Report, and Refuse?
Is a conflict or disagreement considered bullying? Yes or no. Explain.
Answers may vary.
No, it is not considered bullying because most of the time you can resolve a conflict or disagreement on your own using your own problem-solving skills.
Empathy is...
Feeling what someone else is feeling.
Putting yourself in someone else's shoes.
According to the Bystander Power mini poster, bystanders have a responsibility. Name two ways in which they can help if they see or know that bullying is happening to someone.
Answers may vary.
*Reports or helps report bullying
*Stands up for someone being bullied
*Is respectful and kind
*Includes everyone
According to what we've been talking about, cyberbullying is bullying with...
Possible answers include...
*electronic technology
*electronic devices
*technology
*websites
*gaming equipment
Explain the difference between 'telling/reporting' and 'tattling/snitching'.
Telling/Reporting= to help someone who might be in an unsafe situation
Tattling/ Snitching= to get someone in trouble
In the video, we watched Victor being bullied by Zoe. Name two ways in which she bullied him.
Answers vary.
*Called him names.
*Knocked over his books.
*Made fun of him.
*Continued to do mean things to him.
A person who sees or know about bullying happening to someone else is called...
A bystander.
Name 2 reasons why bystanders sometimes choose to do nothing.
Answers vary.
*They’re afraid they’ll be bullied too. *It’s peer pressure—they want to go along with what other people are doing. *Nobody else is doing anything either. *They don’t want to be labeled a “snitch” or a “tattletale.” *They might think it’s okay. *They’re used to it. *They feel like he deserves it.
Technology and devices can be fun and useful when they're used respectfully.
Name 2 ways in which they can be used respectfully.
Answers vary:
Help with schoolwork.
Research.
Learning.
Getting information.
Connecting and staying in touch with friends and family.
Entertainment.
Three to show assertiveness
Answers vary and include:
*Face the person you're talking to.
*Eye contact.
*Keep your head up and shoulders back.
*Use a calm firm voice.
*Use respectful voice
Name two ways in which Aamir helped Victor in this bullying situation.
Answers vary.
*Aamir helped Victor recognize that he was being bullied.
*Aamir reported it to Ms. Dia.
*Aamir stood by Victor when Zoe started bullying Victor at the end.
Name three ways in which Val was bullying Bria.
Answers vary.
*Excluding her.
*Calling her names.
*Saying mean things to her and about her.
*Getting others to exclude her.
If a person sees or knows that bullying is happening and does nothing to help, explain why they are part of the bullying problem.
Answers vary.
*It is everyone's responsibility to do something. You need to report or refuse or help the person being bullied.
In the video, some of the kids who were playing the online game later saw bullying happening to Tessa again online. What did they do? Name 2 ways.
Answers include.
*They stuck up for Tessa when others were being mean to her.
*They complimented Tessa.
*They asked Tessa to play on their side next time.
The four types of bullying
Physical bullying
Verbal bullying
Social or Emotional Bullying
Cyberbullying
Name two ways in which Ms. Dia said she would help Victor.
Answers vary.
*Ms. Dia will make sure the bullying stops.
*She will move desks so Zoe is up front and Victor is by Aamir.
*Ms. Dia will talk to Zoe.
Mr. Clay said he was going to help stop bullying. Name three ways in which he was going to do this.
Answers vary.
*Talk to Val privately.
*Talk to the team.
*Take away playing time if he hears about bullying.
In the video, we recognized that Andrew was being bullied by Dario. Why do you think no one stood up for Andrew? Give 2 possible reasons.
Possible answers.
*Andrew was weird/different.
*Bystanders thought it was funny.
*Bystanders didn't want to seem like they were tattling.
*Bystanders might be afraid Dario would pick on them.
In the video, there were many bystanders. Sal and Kai became responsible bystanders. What did they do? Name 2 things they did.
Answers include.
*They stuck for Tessa.
*They reported it to Ms. Sanchez
*They complimented Tessa online
*They were nice to her.
Fill in the blanks for the bullying definition.
Bullying is when someone ________ being mean to someone else ____ ___________.
The person it's happening to hasn't been able to make it ________.
It is ____________ and ____-___________.
keeps
on purpose
stop
unfair
one-sided
Name three ways in which Victor was assertive towards Zoe.
Answers vary.
*He told her to stop in a strong, respectful voice.
*He used respectful words.
*He looked at her (eye contact).
In our classroom, what are four ways in which we can support each other so something like what happened to Bria doesn't happen to us?
Answers vary.
*Help each other.
*Be nice to each other.
*Include each other.
*Treat each other like we would like to be treated.
*Stand up for each other.
In the video, Isaac had the courage to go to Mr. Bell and tell him that Andrew was being bullied. Mr. Bell asked Isaac to be Andrew's "buddy" or "supporter".
How was Isaac a buddy to Andrew? Give 2 ways he was a buddy.
Possible Answers.
*He said 'hi' to Andrew at recess.
*He asked Andrew how he was doing.
*He sat next to him.
*He told the playground teacher to watch Andrew.
*He distracted Andrew when Dario was throwing wood chips on him.
If you know cyberbullying is happening, what are 3 things you could do to help make it stop?
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*Report it to a caring adult.
*Take screenshots to show an adult.
*Tell the person writing the mean things to cut it out.
*Write kind things about or to the person being cyberbullied.
*Don't forward it, pass it on, or link to it.
*Report it/ bring it to the attention of the website/game